I talk with a number of couples. Most I never meet. I simply answer questions, give advice and hope they find what works for them. Recently I was contacted by a couple looking for their first experience. We chatted for some time. First with the husband. I ask a series of questions to try and find our where the couple is mentally in the process and if they are even ready to go from fantasy to reality.  In time I spoke with the wife and then together as a couple. They were local to me, seemed to be in the right mindset and we had hot if off so to speak. I was actually attempting to slow them down, but after some time they both insisted they were ready to meet me. Initially we were going to meet simply to talk face to face. Share a deep conversation about taking the next step and determine if and when they wanted that to happen.  This couple decided they were ready and did not want to wait any longer. Our first meeting would be in my hotel room and they understood it would m...