Cold Feet over Hot Times

I talk with a number of couples. Most I never meet. I simply answer questions, give advice and hope they find what works for them.

Recently I was contacted by a couple looking for their first experience. We chatted for some time. First with the husband. I ask a series of questions to try and find our where the couple is mentally in the process and if they are even ready to go from fantasy to reality. 

In time I spoke with the wife and then together as a couple. They were local to me, seemed to be in the right mindset and we had hot if off so to speak. I was actually attempting to slow them down, but after some time they both insisted they were ready to meet me.

Initially we were going to meet simply to talk face to face. Share a deep conversation about taking the next step and determine if and when they wanted that to happen. 

This couple decided they were ready and did not want to wait any longer. Our first meeting would be in my hotel room and they understood it would most likely lead to an intense night of sex.

I'm pretty good at telling if a couple is ready for cuck, and everything told me they were. Then it happened. Cold feet. The "We are having second thoughts" message. I don't think it was anything I did or said, but rather the reality of it all.

I never want a couple to have regrets and I walk away if I think a couple is not ready. While I am glad they were honest about their feelings, I was kind of mad at myself for not seeing the signs before.

I had to have a conversation with my long term couple to get their approval before I got involved with someone else. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't disappointed. The deep conversations had me anticipating that first experience with them and to be a bull for a new couple is an honor for me.

Who's knows if time will change things for them. I would be hesitant now to proceed. What's most important is they do what is best for them.

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