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What Women Really Want From Men

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One of the big hang ups many guys have when it comes to cuck is the interaction with another male. Getting close contact or enjoying seeing a man sexually can make one question their own manliness.  Yet  research exploring women’s experiences of threesomes involving two males and one female has revealed that women find it more desirable if the men opt to interact sexually with one another. Yes, it's often a huge turn on for a woman to see her man in new sexual situation. I will tell you that have zero attraction to men. At the same time I have no hang up when it comes bi sex with a couple. I know it's a turn on and it's my goal that both in a couple enjoy the experience. How far that goes depends on the comfort level of the couple.  Why do women like watching straight men men in homoerotic sex? Most often they cite  increasing their own sexual arousal and providing a safer, less objectifying environment as reasons that they would want to see two men interact sex...

The Art of Bi Threesomes

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  I often struggle with the answer when I'm asked if I'm bi. I have no attraction to men at all. I don't kiss men, but over time I've become comfortable with not only close contact in sexual situations, but also bi sex.  For some couples bi sex is a huge turn on and as a bull, I'm all about turning a couple on, braking out of past limitations and making fantasy happen. I recall an audible gasp from a woman first seeing her man take my cock into his mouth. She later shared she almost climaxed just watching it. Another time a woman shared her fantasy was to witness man to man sex. She said it was the most erotic experience of her life.  So while I have no general interest in men, I've learned what  we are attracted to romantically may not always sync up with what our minds tell us turns us on. When a man is hesitant when it comes to cuck, I'll tell him to focus on how his body reacts and not how his mind has been programmed. Same concept really. It doesn't...

Why cuckolding is a more popular kink in the US than Europe, according to a sexual fantasy researcher

  Cuckolding, watching your partner have sex with someone else, is a popular kink in the US, but not Europe. A sexual-fantasy researcher said the 400 people they interviewed in Belgium and the Netherlands didn't bring up cuckolding at all. That's likely because gender roles are more egalitarian and non-monogamy is more accepted in Europe, making cuckolding less taboo. Americans are often considered sexual prudes compared to their typically more uninhibited European counterparts. But there's one kink that Americans seem to enjoy much more than those overseas: cuckolding where one partner watches while their partner has sex with another person. On a recent podcast hosted by the Kinsey Institute sex researcher Justin Lehmiller, MariĆ«lle de Goede shared findings from her sexual-fantasy research in the Netherlands and Belgium. It involved conducting 400 interviews about people's sexual fantasies. When de Goede cross-referenced her European findings with previous rese...

From the Mailbag: Our First Group

 Q: This isn't exactly cuckold related, but I am hoping you can help. We are about to go into our first group sex encounter and wanted to know if you had any advice for us? A: Without knowing your level of experience with other forms of sex my advice will be pretty general, but here it is: Decide ahead of time what your expectations and boundaries are. Not only what you are willing to do, but what your spouse is ready to witness. Be open to the desires of others, but also firm on your own limits.  It's incredibly important to be safe. Protecting yourself and your partner are vital. Don't get carried away and let one experience effect the rest of your life.  Communication is key. Make sure you give and get consent. Give yourself time to adjust. No need to do it all right away. I don't recommend excessive drinking or any drug use. It will cloud your abilities and judgement. Be open, but don't be afraid to say no. Don't be offended to hear no.  Don't hide the f...