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What Women Really Want From Men

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One of the big hang ups many guys have when it comes to cuck is the interaction with another male. Getting close contact or enjoying seeing a man sexually can make one question their own manliness.  Yet  research exploring women’s experiences of threesomes involving two males and one female has revealed that women find it more desirable if the men opt to interact sexually with one another. Yes, it's often a huge turn on for a woman to see her man in new sexual situation. I will tell you that have zero attraction to men. At the same time I have no hang up when it comes bi sex with a couple. I know it's a turn on and it's my goal that both in a couple enjoy the experience. How far that goes depends on the comfort level of the couple.  Why do women like watching straight men men in homoerotic sex? Most often they cite  increasing their own sexual arousal and providing a safer, less objectifying environment as reasons that they would want to see two men interact sex...

The Black Bull Truth

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I get the black/white question often and whatever you chose is up to you. I don't think choosing a bull should be based on skin color. At the same time, much of the interracial allure tends to come from misinformation and the myth the black men are better endowed than white men. Some are, some aren't.  Recently a couple shared with me their general experience with black men. It seemed a few could not get fully erect. So while they may have been larger, the ability to use that extra length was impacted. Their question was why? 40% of men over 40 have ED issues. That number jumps to 70% after age 70.  African-American men are  more likely  than men of other races to experience ED.  ED’s underlying  causes include  cardiovascular disease—high blood pressure, high cholesterol. All generally greater issues for black men. Many cuckold couples  often have unrealistic expectations, pressuring the Bull to perform on demand or wanting him to get an erection...

Ask Me: Cuck questions

  I get lots of email questions about cuck when people come across my blog and find someone they can safely ask questions. So here are a few answers and feel free to send me your questions. Do people get jealous?   Short answer is yes. But that's not always bad. Anger and hurt are bad, but measured jealousy can be arousing and make you want your spouse even more. Are cuck fantasies involving a black man taking my white wife racist? I do tend to find the interracial    portrayal  of cuck (especially in porn) racist. At the same time, there are plenty of black men who are happy to take on the role of a black bull. What needs to be understood is fantasy and reality are different. As long as everyone is a consenting adult, there should be no need to worry. I know that my husband is highly monogamous, so I have never mentioned it directly, but I would love the chance to screw other guys. How do I explain that I only want one love in my life (him), but I would al...

It's Not All Black and White

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  Often times cuckold is portrayed as black man with a large cock and a white wife, While there are certainly some couples that enjoy this scenario, it's not really the norm for most.  Race should have little, if anything to do with choosing a bull. While many new couples start off seeking a man with a larger cock than the husband and many think a black man has that (BBC), most discover it is more important to find a bull with an average cock that knows how to please a woman in multiple ways. In fact many couples discover often large cocks are uncomfortable for the woman.  The images that are often seen in cuckold porn do not reflect this reality. It really comes down to your own desires and preferences. Do not get wrapped up in racial stereotypes because often couples discover they are myths.  Interracial cuck is merely a niche within the cuckolding lifestyle. Couples have shared with me stories of disappointment when they assumed a black man would be more domi...