What's the most  the most common fetish in the nation? Feet. To each their own, but for me feet just carry the rest of the fun parts.  While data such of this is always suspect as many keep their fetish desires private, it gives us a peak at what others are interested in. Some states are vanilla like tickling while others go hardcore with fisting and bondage. For those into cuckold, you might want to visit Texas or Nevada. Just 5 years ago Alabama held the number 1 spot for cuck couples. TX was at 27 and NV at 11. You know that one chair that's in the corner of every hotel room? Now you know what that's really for.

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Recently a reader suggested I dive a bit deeper into the mindset of the cuckold. Now I fully admit as a bull, my perspective dies not come from a cuckold and not be exact for everyone, but I can share what I have learned over the years. Most cuckold submissives find themselves internally conflicted with a desire to please their wife in nonconventional ways. Some are unable to meet their needs for a number of reasons and some find pleasure in exploring taboo sexual desires and fantasies.  Cuckoldry is considered a  fetish  because it betrays a fundamental and age-old norms of a man will not want other men around his woman.  We are socialized to accept the millenniums-old belief that monogamy is a virtue, and that infidelity is equated with immorality and instability, H umans are not naturally monogamous. Otherwise infidelity would not occur. Nevertheless, we are taught to remain faithful to our partners and never stray and that can lead to a boring, pre...

I started this blog as a way to share my views with others who had an interest in real cuckoldry and seemed to have so many questions. My experience with couples has mostly been positive, but that is result of effort and not just luck. I laugh at the way cuck is portrayed in porn and other media. Most times it is not close to reality.  There is a lot of misunderstanding on the topic and few places where people can find quality information and ask their own questions. Over 10,000 people have found this page. They have shared the fantasy and some have begun their own exploration journey of sexual desires, taboos and deep emotions.    If you find anything here helpful, I'm glad. Even if you only discover that not everyone into cuck is some perverted deviant. Most are normal friendly people who are just seeking some excitement that is widely misunderstood.  As I approach writing my 100 article here, I'm not sure how much more I can share without just repeating what has a...

 Q: Can you explain more about the psychology of cuckolding? A: I'm no doctor and it's a deep subject not easily explained, but let me make an attempt.  Some people think guys who are cuckolds have some kind of sex disorder or “losers" of some sort. I can confirm they are wrong along don't understand other misconceptions about cuckoldry. Being a cuckold requires you to be confident about yourself most of all. Otherwise you can't see your partner with someone else. You also need to be in a loving relationship and both partners need to be able to completely trust each other. Both partners also need to be clear why they are doing it and also set certain boundaries. If you are careful about it, it can be one of the great joy's of being happily married . As for the psychology behind it. Sometimes its very simple. Just the happiness of seeing your partner having fun is a great altruistic happiness that is difficult for many people to understand. Cuckolding isn't ...

Almost 60% of men and a 25% of women have a cuckold fantasy but many never talk about it.  Believe it or not, this fantasy can improve your sex life and your relationship when done correctly. If you are reading this there’s a high chance you’re at least a little into cuckolding. Maybe you are just exploring or looking for information. You've come to the right place.  Cuckolding is the idea that a married woman, maybe a mom or someone older is still highly sexually attractive to other men. That she’s sexually vivacious and alive. It’s creates a new space for a couple to be sexually open and experience new things in new ways.  It's also a turn on for a husband to see his wife in new sexual ways. Bringing in another person can revive sex drive and desires in a long-term relationship, and can go a long way to add excitement and spice. Society is very heterosexual and very monogamous, having another man in the bedroom and breaking the rules of monogamy is taboo and kinky and c...

More than half of all men and a quarter of all women have the same fantasy, but nobody talks about it. The cuckolding fantasy, or wife sharing fantasy, can be a powerful way to strengthen the enjoyment of your sex life with your partner -- even if you never bring anyone else into the bedroom

Before we get into our latest topic I want to say thank you to all who have found and supported this blog. Over 8000 have shared thoughts, asked questions and sought advice and information here. I hope you find the info here helpful and I welcome you to reach out directly if I can be of assistance. So you've thought about cuck but should you make the leap into reality? Maybe. There are pros and cons. The growing popularity of cuckolding has likely introduced the idea to more couples, including those to whom it may never have otherwise occurred. Of course, there’s a huge difference between fantasizing about having sex with someone else, and the reality of it.  The fantasy of being a cuckold can be exciting, intoxicating and may revive a dull, vanilla sex life, whilst the realism of this dream can cause anxieties, fears of failure, inadequacy, friction and jealousy. Intriguingly, the few studies into this phenomenon that have been conducted suggest that the cuckolding fantasy is more...

I've often been told that the involvement of an additional sex partner (such as a bull) can and does improve the sex life of a couple. My belief is guys tend to try harder and even learn a few techniques from watching and being challenged a bit. A study showed b oth men and women rated sex as more satisfying when men knew they had a sexual rival. This is likely due, in large part, to the fact that men said they put more effort into satisfying their partner when they had a rival. Women also reported that sex usually lasts longer in these situations. Men and women both reported that orgasms were easier to have, more intense, and longer lasting when men knew they had sexual rivals.  This is the deep psychological part of cuckold that many don't fully understand.  So what accounts for these changes in sexual behavior?  Researchers attempted to explain them through an evolutionary lens focusing on  sperm competition theory . The basic idea behind this is that men evolved ...

I love when spring comes, the weather warms up and people are in the mood to fuck . For a man whose idea of heaven is the gentlest of touches on his aching erection as he leaks precum watching his wife climax with another man, it means cuck is back in season. When I’ve discussed cuckolding with people not in the lifestyle, some think it represents weakness. That those who get turned on by the idea of their partner fucking someone else are somehow constantly miserable. Feeling undeserving of love and so only able to enjoy it if they know it comes with the promise of betrayal. That's totally wrong. Guys cite a range of reasons why it’s hot: they get off on their partner’s pleasure. They get off on the pure visual of it: watching two people fuck and knowing one of them is your partner. It's a personalized explicit live show performed just for them. And some of them – yes – they like the conflict. In a world that teaches us that sex is precious – a gift you give to those you love a...

I get a lot of questions about being a bull and all that means. It's not something you learn overnight, but maybe some insight will help. A cuckold bull is a term used to describe a dominant male participant in a cuckolding fetish in which a man takes pleasure in watching his partner engage in sexual activity with another man, often referred to as the "bull". The cuckold bull may be involved in sexual acts or simply watch as a spectator. It often involves power dynamics and intense phycological stimulation beyond mere physical. All participants should engage in safe, consensual and negotiated play. True  Cuckold bulls are unique and much more then someone willing to sleep with an attached woman. Typical features of a cuckold bull: Confidence : A cuckold bull exudes confidence in himself and his masculinity. He's comfortable with sexuality and is not afraid to explore desires of a couple. Open-mindedness : Typically willing to try new things. They enjoy pushing the bou...

I'm often asked by new couples my thoughts on a husband being present and watching the sexual encounter between his wife and a bull. Ultimately it's up to the couple and what they think they can handle, but let me share some thoughts to help make the decision. I personally prefer the husband to be there so long as there is enjoyment in the experience. I also feel it's good for the couple to be connected during sex even if it's only eye contact. However, there is much to consider. First not all women want to be watched. There are a number of reasons for this but unless everyone is comfortable, the experience will be harmed.  Not all guys (especially newbies) can handle the reality of it all. They are in full control of the fantasy in their mind. That's not so when they see a bull take control. Watching is erotic, intense, and can be a fantasy come true. It also can be humbling, a blow to the ego, and may stir up negative feelings of hurt, confusion and inadequacy.  N...

  "He wants to watch me with another man…should I do it? He watches me as we have sex now but he wants to see my face and how my body responds from another point of view. He is letting me decide if I want to choose the other guy or let him do the choosing." When you introduce kinks into the bedroom, things can get real tricky, real fast. One of our readers ran into this issue when her  husband mentioned that h is cuckold fantasy. While for some the idea their partner is interested in cuck can be shocking, one should never shame someone for having fantasies that are different from your own. That being said, you also shouldn't force yourself to accommodate them if it seriously makes you uncomfortable. So if your man has a cuckold fantasy (where he wants you to have sex with another man while he watches) Really think about what he's asking. Do you think that this will negatively impact your relationship? Before you make any decision, it's important that you vo...

At times I'm asked how a couples feel  after there first encounter with me. I think it's important to connect right after every session with a bull, but to get a true answer, it has to come from the couple. Keep in mind with 3 people involved, you get 3 perspectives.  I asked a cuck husband to give some insight: "I was very nervous going into it. We had been married for 30 years. Sex wasn't bad, but it wasn't great either. I knew deep down we needed something. I just wasn't sure what. When we started chatting what came to mind was very arousing. I really wasn't expecting that. I was expecting to be turned of, disgusted by it all and walk away thinking in no way I wanted to do anything like that. The opposite happened.  The more we discussed it, the more we both wanted it to happen.  Watching it all happen the first time there were so many emotions. I was jealous, shocked and the most turned on as I have ever been, It's like it's not really happening...

Many guys while being turned on by the idea of cuck are concerned that their wife will only have sex with the bull and no longer desire sex with their husband. I will tell you sex will change but often improve greatly.  Once you understand that sex is more than just intercourse then you are bound to experience more exciting and intense sex with your spouse BECAUSE of the bull's involvement.  They key is to channel desires into other forms of intimacy. For couples whose husband for whatever reason does not effectively satisfy his wife, intercourse is really only most pleasing for the husband. The wife my find it enjoyable but less than satisfying. When you add the sexual satisfaction provided by a good bull, sex becomes more satisfying for both and often the desires of the couple increases.  The old saying "Absence may the heart grows fonder" applies here. When a wife is satisfied by her bull and the issues of frustration or disappointment are removed, sex becomes so much ...