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The United States of Fetish

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  What's the most  the most common fetish in the nation? Feet. To each their own, but for me feet just carry the rest of the fun parts.  While data such of this is always suspect as many keep their fetish desires private, it gives us a peak at what others are interested in. Some states are vanilla like tickling while others go hardcore with fisting and bondage. For those into cuckold, you might want to visit Texas or Nevada. Just 5 years ago Alabama held the number 1 spot for cuck couples. TX was at 27 and NV at 11. You know that one chair that's in the corner of every hotel room? Now you know what that's really for.

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Reflections of a Bull

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I started this blog as a way to share my views with others who had an interest in real cuckoldry and seemed to have so many questions. My experience with couples has mostly been positive, but that is result of effort and not just luck. I laugh at the way cuck is portrayed in porn and other media. Most times it is not close to reality.  There is a lot of misunderstanding on the topic and few places where people can find quality information and ask their own questions. Over 10,000 people have found this page. They have shared the fantasy and some have begun their own exploration journey of sexual desires, taboos and deep emotions.    If you find anything here helpful, I'm glad. Even if you only discover that not everyone into cuck is some perverted deviant. Most are normal friendly people who are just seeking some excitement that is widely misunderstood.  As I approach writing my 100 article here, I'm not sure how much more I can share without just repeating what has a...

How to Find a Bull

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From the Mailbag: Is the cuckold thing really all that common?

  Q: I'm  trying to understand just what it's about but I've always assumed it was pretty uncommon (though to be honest I don't really "get" it, there are plenty of "weird" things that I can understand are turn-ons for people but the cuckold kink just has me baffled, not just the idea of being the cuckold but also being the "bull" as they call it).  Is the cuckold thing really all that common?  A: How common cuck is hard to say as many people aren't willing to admit their personal sexual activity. I can say the interest in the subject seems to have grown recently. I'm not surprised you don't understand it, as most people outside the lifestyle are confused as well. Maybe some stats will help explain things: Cuck does seem to be becoming more popular. Now it's easier than ever for people to explore and connect with others who have similar interests. There are around 6.25 million US couples that are active cuckolds There are mo...

MFM MMF FFM What Does It All Mean?

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It's easy to get confused as terms with different meanings to different people are tossed around. I don't consider a typical threesome to be cuckold, but let's get into some terms you might see or hear around cuck. MFM - This means the couple is looking for a male to join them in a threesome usually with no male-on-male play. It means that the couple is expecting the two guys to play straight. The female is the focus of attention, so MFM means no direct contact between the men. It's simply sharing the woman. MMF - This   couple is looking for a male to join them and some level of bisexual play is acceptable. It typically means casual or at least oral male-on-male contact is expected. In some cases, you will be able to touch and play with the other male in the threesome as you would the woman. FFM - T his is pretty self explanatory and by far the most popular threesome in the lifestyle. It signifies that the couple is looking for another woman to join them.  Bi play is o...

Chatrooms and websites

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One of the biggest challenges when it comes to cuck is finding people who are honest, real and do more than just talk a good game. Many couples turn to chatrooms and websites to safely and discreetly meet people and begin their exploration. While there are some real people to be found, many are just playing out their own sexual fantasies online.  You really have no idea who you are talking to and if what they are telling you is even close to the truth. I have no issue with people who play out fantasy online. I do have an issue with those who misrepresent themselves and seek to mislead others. The best approach is to assume what you find online is false until proven true. I don't expect anyone to just believe every word I say. I answer questions, address concerns, build trust over time and never rush into anything.  If you go online, I suggest you do it as a couple. At the very least discuss what you discover together. It goes without saying, don't give anyone your address, pho...