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Young Cucks

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  I received a question from a young couple, not married, but interested in cuck. I answered them directly and while I tend to stick to married couples, I thought I'd share some of what I told them here. Most of my experience is with couples in their 40's or 50's or older. Early on I had some experiences with a younger couple that just did not go well. They weren't in a mature enough relationship. To be fair, I didn't have the experience I have now, but I find older couples often more compatible with the lifestyle.  While I would caution a couple of any age, it's not impossible for a young couple to find success in the lifestyle. Young couples have access to cuckold fantasies and information at their fingertips online. Something older couples never had. So the curiosity is beginning younger. The culture is more sexual, too. You can find sexual partners through apps that make it really easy to meet for sex without any long-term entanglements. It used to be much m

From the Mailbag: Cuckoldress or Hotwife?

Q: Can you explain the difference between a Cuckoldress and Hotwife? Thanks for the question. There is a lot of terms used in the lifestyle community and often different words have different meanings to people. I personally don't dwell on definitions too much unless it creates a communication issue. Some say the difference is that a Cuckoldress humiliates the husband whereas a Hotwifing does not, some say the opposite.   Yet others say a Hotwife chooses her partners but a Cuckoldress has her partners chosen by her husband. So the definition really depends on what the person using the term thinks it means.   I don't often use the term Cuckoldress. I prefer Hotwife no matter the actual role. The lifestyle is all about finding out what works best for you. No rule book, no restrictions. So what terms you use are really up to you as is the type of cuckolding that you prefer.