I get a lot of questions about being a bull and all that means. It's not something you learn overnight, but maybe some insight will help. A cuckold bull is a term used to describe a dominant male participant in a cuckolding fetish in which a man takes pleasure in watching his partner engage in sexual activity with another man, often referred to as the "bull". The cuckold bull may be involved in sexual acts or simply watch as a spectator. It often involves power dynamics and intense phycological stimulation beyond mere physical. All participants should engage in safe, consensual and negotiated play. True  Cuckold bulls are unique and much more then someone willing to sleep with an attached woman. Typical features of a cuckold bull: Confidence : A cuckold bull exudes confidence in himself and his masculinity. He's comfortable with sexuality and is not afraid to explore desires of a couple. Open-mindedness : Typically willing to try new things. They enjoy pushing the bou

It's easy to get confused as terms with different meanings to different people are tossed around. I don't consider a typical threesome to be cuckold, but let's get into some terms you might see or hear around cuck. MFM - This means the couple is looking for a male to join them in a threesome usually with no male-on-male play. It means that the couple is expecting the two guys to play straight. The female is the focus of attention, so MFM means no direct contact between the men. It's simply sharing the woman. MMF - This   couple is looking for a male to join them and some level of bisexual play is acceptable. It typically means casual or at least oral male-on-male contact is expected. In some cases, you will be able to touch and play with the other male in the threesome as you would the woman. FFM - T his is pretty self explanatory and by far the most popular threesome in the lifestyle. It signifies that the couple is looking for another woman to join them.  Bi play is o

I'm often asked by new couples my thoughts on a husband being present and watching the sexual encounter between his wife and a bull. Ultimately it's up to the couple and what they think they can handle, but let me share some thoughts to help make the decision. I personally prefer the husband to be there so long as there is enjoyment in the experience. I also feel it's good for the couple to be connected during sex even if it's only eye contact. However, there is much to consider. First not all women want to be watched. There are a number of reasons for this but unless everyone is comfortable, the experience will be harmed.  Not all guys (especially newbies) can handle the reality of it all. They are in full control of the fantasy in their mind. That's not so when they see a bull take control. Watching is erotic, intense, and can be a fantasy come true. It also can be humbling, a blow to the ego, and may stir up negative feelings of hurt, confusion and inadequacy.  N