The Lowdown On Bulls

I get a lot of questions about being a bull and all that means. It's not something you learn overnight, but maybe some insight will help.

A cuckold bull is a term used to describe a dominant male participant in a cuckolding fetish in which a man takes pleasure in watching his partner engage in sexual activity with another man, often referred to as the "bull". The cuckold bull may be involved in sexual acts or simply watch as a spectator. It often involves power dynamics and intense phycological stimulation beyond mere physical. All participants should engage in safe, consensual and negotiated play.

True Cuckold bulls are unique and much more then someone willing to sleep with an attached woman. Typical features of a cuckold bull:

• Confidence: A cuckold bull exudes confidence in himself and his masculinity. He's comfortable with sexuality and is not afraid to explore desires of a couple.

• Open-mindedness: Typically willing to try new things. They enjoy pushing the boundaries of comfort zones and exploring.

• Dominance: Cuckold bulls enjoy take on a dominant role. They may control the pace and direction of the sexual encounter.

• Voyeuristic tendencies: Cuckold bulls often have a voyeuristic side, enjoying watching their partner engage in sexual acts with a spouse during or after their own sexual encounter.

• Strong communication skills: Communication is key in any relationship, and cuckold bulls are no exception. They are able to openly discuss desires and boundaries, making sure everyone is on the same page.

Finding a Bull:

Finding a good "bull" can be both challenging and exciting. 

• Cyber Search: Online communities can be  great resources to learn and engage. Meet other like-minded individuals and find potential bulls who share your cuckold desires.

• Meet in person: If you want to meet in person. fetish events provide opportunities to meet new people and potentially find your dream bull. A Google search of local events will usually show what is happening in your area.

• Online links: Many sites offer virtual looks at potential bulls. Create a profile and let your cuckold desires be known. 

• Ask: Once you meet others into cuck, ask if they know of any bulls who might be interested in joining you.

• Communication is key: Once you've found a bull who piques your interest, have an open and honest conversation about your boundaries, desires, and expectations. Screen carefully and don't rush things/

A word of Caution:

While finding a bull can be an exciting, it's important to be aware of some red flags to look out for. Here are a few things to keep an eye on:

• Dishonesty: If a bull is not upfront and truthful about who they are, what their relationship statues is and what they want, it's a red flag. Trust is crucial, and a bull who is not honest is not someone you want to play with.

• Disregard for consent: A bull who ignores your and your partner's boundaries or tries to push you into doing things you're not comfortable with is a major warning. Always prioritize consent and make sure everyone is comfortable with the activities taking place.

• Unreliability: A bull who consistently cancels or doesn't show up for planned encounters is a red flag. Reliability is important in any relationship, and a bull who can't be counted on is not someone you want to waste time on.

• Negative attitude: A bull who is rude, condescending, or has a negative attitude towards you, your partner is a bad match. Cuck should be a positive and empowering experience for everyone involved.

By being aware of these red flags, you can ensure a safe, consensual, and enjoyable cuckolding experience. Trust your gut, and if something doesn't feel right, don't be afraid to walk away and find a bull who is a better match for you and your partner.

Cuck is not for everyone and very few guys are cut out to be a Bull. It can be a fun and exciting way to explore new sexual experiences and add a little excitement to your sex life. Whether you're just starting to explore the fetish or you're a seasoned pro, it's important to always be respectful, consensual, and safe.