Chatrooms and websites

One of the biggest challenges when it comes to cuck is finding people who are honest, real and do more than just talk a good game. Many couples turn to chatrooms and websites to safely and discreetly meet people and begin their exploration. While there are some real people to be found, many are just playing out their own sexual fantasies online. 

You really have no idea who you are talking to and if what they are telling you is even close to the truth. I have no issue with people who play out fantasy online. I do have an issue with those who misrepresent themselves and seek to mislead others.

The best approach is to assume what you find online is false until proven true. I don't expect anyone to just believe every word I say. I answer questions, address concerns, build trust over time and never rush into anything. If you go online, I suggest you do it as a couple. At the very least discuss what you discover together. It goes without saying, don't give anyone your address, phone or personal information until you build a level of trust.

I can't tell you how many times couples have shared their stories of disappointment and fraud with me. One guy sounded great, said he had experience, seemed like a fit. He met the couple and could not preform in the situation. Quickly left the couple behind. Confused, hurt and disappointed, it would be over two years before they even considered trying again.

There are plenty of websites and forums you can join. Most sell a membership to be able to connect with others. Some have found success on swinger or dating websites however swinging is not the same as cuck so beware. Couples do transition out of swinging and into cuck and often there are men seeking couples on sites.

Just use caution and consider all risks before meeting someone. I often meet couples for the first time in a public place and with no expectation of sex. Usually I want the husband to be there so everyone feels safe. The top priority should be to ensure your health, safety and marital well-being.