Recently a reader suggested I dive a bit deeper into the mindset of the cuckold. Now I fully admit as a bull, my perspective dies not come from a cuckold and not be exact for everyone, but I can share what I have learned over the years. Most cuckold submissives find themselves internally conflicted with a desire to please their wife in nonconventional ways. Some are unable to meet their needs for a number of reasons and some find pleasure in exploring taboo sexual desires and fantasies.  Cuckoldry is considered a  fetish  because it betrays a fundamental and age-old norms of a man will not want other men around his woman.  We are socialized to accept the millenniums-old belief that monogamy is a virtue, and that infidelity is equated with immorality and instability, H umans are not naturally monogamous. Otherwise infidelity would not occur. Nevertheless, we are taught to remain faithful to our partners and never stray and that can lead to a boring, pre...

I started this blog as a way to share my views with others who had an interest in real cuckoldry and seemed to have so many questions. My experience with couples has mostly been positive, but that is result of effort and not just luck. I laugh at the way cuck is portrayed in porn and other media. Most times it is not close to reality.  There is a lot of misunderstanding on the topic and few places where people can find quality information and ask their own questions. Over 10,000 people have found this page. They have shared the fantasy and some have begun their own exploration journey of sexual desires, taboos and deep emotions.    If you find anything here helpful, I'm glad. Even if you only discover that not everyone into cuck is some perverted deviant. Most are normal friendly people who are just seeking some excitement that is widely misunderstood.  As I approach writing my 100 article here, I'm not sure how much more I can share without just repeating what has a...

 Q: Can you explain more about the psychology of cuckolding? A: I'm no doctor and it's a deep subject not easily explained, but let me make an attempt.  Some people think guys who are cuckolds have some kind of sex disorder or “losers" of some sort. I can confirm they are wrong along don't understand other misconceptions about cuckoldry. Being a cuckold requires you to be confident about yourself most of all. Otherwise you can't see your partner with someone else. You also need to be in a loving relationship and both partners need to be able to completely trust each other. Both partners also need to be clear why they are doing it and also set certain boundaries. If you are careful about it, it can be one of the great joy's of being happily married . As for the psychology behind it. Sometimes its very simple. Just the happiness of seeing your partner having fun is a great altruistic happiness that is difficult for many people to understand. Cuckolding isn't ...

Almost 60% of men and a 25% of women have a cuckold fantasy but many never talk about it.  Believe it or not, this fantasy can improve your sex life and your relationship when done correctly. If you are reading this there’s a high chance you’re at least a little into cuckolding. Maybe you are just exploring or looking for information. You've come to the right place.  Cuckolding is the idea that a married woman, maybe a mom or someone older is still highly sexually attractive to other men. That she’s sexually vivacious and alive. It’s creates a new space for a couple to be sexually open and experience new things in new ways.  It's also a turn on for a husband to see his wife in new sexual ways. Bringing in another person can revive sex drive and desires in a long-term relationship, and can go a long way to add excitement and spice. Society is very heterosexual and very monogamous, having another man in the bedroom and breaking the rules of monogamy is taboo and kinky and c...

More than half of all men and a quarter of all women have the same fantasy, but nobody talks about it. The cuckolding fantasy, or wife sharing fantasy, can be a powerful way to strengthen the enjoyment of your sex life with your partner -- even if you never bring anyone else into the bedroom

Before we get into our latest topic I want to say thank you to all who have found and supported this blog. Over 8000 have shared thoughts, asked questions and sought advice and information here. I hope you find the info here helpful and I welcome you to reach out directly if I can be of assistance. So you've thought about cuck but should you make the leap into reality? Maybe. There are pros and cons. The growing popularity of cuckolding has likely introduced the idea to more couples, including those to whom it may never have otherwise occurred. Of course, there’s a huge difference between fantasizing about having sex with someone else, and the reality of it.  The fantasy of being a cuckold can be exciting, intoxicating and may revive a dull, vanilla sex life, whilst the realism of this dream can cause anxieties, fears of failure, inadequacy, friction and jealousy. Intriguingly, the few studies into this phenomenon that have been conducted suggest that the cuckolding fantasy is more...

Why would anyone ever gain pleasure from seeing their woman fuck other men?  The answer can vary. Often people struggle to understand the deep mental side of cock that goes way beyond intense sex. Cuckoldry takes our deep shames and insecurities and then eroticizes them. Watching a partner with someone else, being present and orchestrating it is a mix of powerful emotions. Top performing individuals often enjoy power exchange. They go to work all day every day... and are "the man," "the alpha," "the leader." Cuck can be an escape from that.  Some  Cucks want their own inner ideal man to make love to their women. The man that they don't consider themselves to be, but the bull does embody. There can a homoerotic element to this sort of fantasy as well,  Sometimes people just find things hot and that's ok.  The idea that humans are automatically supposed to fit in some "correct" sexual preferences is wrong. If he's not a jealous type, th...