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I've debated starting this blog, but I find many people have questions and there is more false information out there than accurate and helpful info. So here it is. As for me, I'm an genuine experienced bull. That means I have done the things I speak of and share from my personal views and experience. If you are just beginning to look into cuck, forget what you see in porn and most things online. Most of it comes from people who don't have a clue. It's fine for fantasy, but reality is very different.  The term "bull" is often misunderstood. For me it simply means a man who leads a couple in sexual exploration. It's not a threesome, swinging, cheating or some guy on a power trip that likes to fuck someone's wife. I don't get into humiliation, or excessive dominance. My goal is to enhance the sex life of the couple and allow them to explore things in a way that would not be possible one on one.  The term bull can be used in a general way to refer to a...

The United States of Fetish

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  What's the most  the most common fetish in the nation? Feet. To each their own, but for me feet just carry the rest of the fun parts.  While data such of this is always suspect as many keep their fetish desires private, it gives us a peak at what others are interested in. Some states are vanilla like tickling while others go hardcore with fisting and bondage. For those into cuckold, you might want to visit Texas or Nevada. Just 5 years ago Alabama held the number 1 spot for cuck couples. TX was at 27 and NV at 11. You know that one chair that's in the corner of every hotel room? Now you know what that's really for.

Hotwife & Cuckolding - The Difference Between

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Cuckold Problems

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All couples, but especially those new to cuck, worry about problems that can occur. Let's talk about some  problems you may face along the way and give you a simple solutions exploring cuckoldry. Problem: Too Much, Too Soon One of the most common problems for couples is doing too much too soon. Sometimes, this is a case of too quickly blurring the line between fantasy and reality. In other cases, rushing the level of control before one can adjust to  the change. Cuck is about seduction, building trust, and honest communication on both sides of the relationship. While some blurring of the lines between fantasy and reality is normal, too much can cause even the best of intentions to backfire. Though exciting, cuck can be overwhelming if rushed. Usually, a couple has built the fantasy years before developing a relationship. However, the fantasies and desires of each partner may  be very different. Commonalties must be discovered and explored while respecting the limits of yo...

What Women Really Want From Men

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One of the big hang ups many guys have when it comes to cuck is the interaction with another male. Getting close contact or enjoying seeing a man sexually can make one question their own manliness.  Yet  research exploring women’s experiences of threesomes involving two males and one female has revealed that women find it more desirable if the men opt to interact sexually with one another. Yes, it's often a huge turn on for a woman to see her man in new sexual situation. I will tell you that have zero attraction to men. At the same time I have no hang up when it comes bi sex with a couple. I know it's a turn on and it's my goal that both in a couple enjoy the experience. How far that goes depends on the comfort level of the couple.  Why do women like watching straight men men in homoerotic sex? Most often they cite  increasing their own sexual arousal and providing a safer, less objectifying environment as reasons that they would want to see two men interact sex...

Cuckold Connections

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The Psychology of A Cuckold Husband

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Recently a reader suggested I dive a bit deeper into the mindset of the cuckold. Now I fully admit as a bull, my perspective dies not come from a cuckold and not be exact for everyone, but I can share what I have learned over the years. Most cuckold submissives find themselves internally conflicted with a desire to please their wife in nonconventional ways. Some are unable to meet their needs for a number of reasons and some find pleasure in exploring taboo sexual desires and fantasies.  Cuckoldry is considered a  fetish  because it betrays a fundamental and age-old norms of a man will not want other men around his woman.  We are socialized to accept the millenniums-old belief that monogamy is a virtue, and that infidelity is equated with immorality and instability, H umans are not naturally monogamous. Otherwise infidelity would not occur. Nevertheless, we are taught to remain faithful to our partners and never stray and that can lead to a boring, pre...

Reflections of a Bull

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I started this blog as a way to share my views with others who had an interest in real cuckoldry and seemed to have so many questions. My experience with couples has mostly been positive, but that is result of effort and not just luck. I laugh at the way cuck is portrayed in porn and other media. Most times it is not close to reality.  There is a lot of misunderstanding on the topic and few places where people can find quality information and ask their own questions. Over 10,000 people have found this page. They have shared the fantasy and some have begun their own exploration journey of sexual desires, taboos and deep emotions.    If you find anything here helpful, I'm glad. Even if you only discover that not everyone into cuck is some perverted deviant. Most are normal friendly people who are just seeking some excitement that is widely misunderstood.  As I approach writing my 100 article here, I'm not sure how much more I can share without just repeating what has a...