All couples, but especially those new to cuck, worry about problems that can occur. Let's talk about some  problems you may face along the way and give you a simple solutions exploring cuckoldry. Problem: Too Much, Too Soon One of the most common problems for couples is doing too much too soon. Sometimes, this is a case of too quickly blurring the line between fantasy and reality. In other cases, rushing the level of control before one can adjust to  the change. Cuck is about seduction, building trust, and honest communication on both sides of the relationship. While some blurring of the lines between fantasy and reality is normal, too much can cause even the best of intentions to backfire. Though exciting, cuck can be overwhelming if rushed. Usually, a couple has built the fantasy years before developing a relationship. However, the fantasies and desires of each partner may  be very different. Commonalties must be discovered and explored while respecting the limits of yo...

One of the big hang ups many guys have when it comes to cuck is the interaction with another male. Getting close contact or enjoying seeing a man sexually can make one question their own manliness.  Yet  research exploring women’s experiences of threesomes involving two males and one female has revealed that women find it more desirable if the men opt to interact sexually with one another. Yes, it's often a huge turn on for a woman to see her man in new sexual situation. I will tell you that have zero attraction to men. At the same time I have no hang up when it comes bi sex with a couple. I know it's a turn on and it's my goal that both in a couple enjoy the experience. How far that goes depends on the comfort level of the couple.  Why do women like watching straight men men in homoerotic sex? Most often they cite  increasing their own sexual arousal and providing a safer, less objectifying environment as reasons that they would want to see two men interact sex...

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Recently a reader suggested I dive a bit deeper into the mindset of the cuckold. Now I fully admit as a bull, my perspective dies not come from a cuckold and not be exact for everyone, but I can share what I have learned over the years. Most cuckold submissives find themselves internally conflicted with a desire to please their wife in nonconventional ways. Some are unable to meet their needs for a number of reasons and some find pleasure in exploring taboo sexual desires and fantasies.  Cuckoldry is considered a  fetish  because it betrays a fundamental and age-old norms of a man will not want other men around his woman.  We are socialized to accept the millenniums-old belief that monogamy is a virtue, and that infidelity is equated with immorality and instability, H umans are not naturally monogamous. Otherwise infidelity would not occur. Nevertheless, we are taught to remain faithful to our partners and never stray and that can lead to a boring, pre...

I started this blog as a way to share my views with others who had an interest in real cuckoldry and seemed to have so many questions. My experience with couples has mostly been positive, but that is result of effort and not just luck. I laugh at the way cuck is portrayed in porn and other media. Most times it is not close to reality.  There is a lot of misunderstanding on the topic and few places where people can find quality information and ask their own questions. Over 10,000 people have found this page. They have shared the fantasy and some have begun their own exploration journey of sexual desires, taboos and deep emotions.    If you find anything here helpful, I'm glad. Even if you only discover that not everyone into cuck is some perverted deviant. Most are normal friendly people who are just seeking some excitement that is widely misunderstood.  As I approach writing my 100 article here, I'm not sure how much more I can share without just repeating what has a...

 Q: Can you explain more about the psychology of cuckolding? A: I'm no doctor and it's a deep subject not easily explained, but let me make an attempt.  Some people think guys who are cuckolds have some kind of sex disorder or “losers" of some sort. I can confirm they are wrong along don't understand other misconceptions about cuckoldry. Being a cuckold requires you to be confident about yourself most of all. Otherwise you can't see your partner with someone else. You also need to be in a loving relationship and both partners need to be able to completely trust each other. Both partners also need to be clear why they are doing it and also set certain boundaries. If you are careful about it, it can be one of the great joy's of being happily married . As for the psychology behind it. Sometimes its very simple. Just the happiness of seeing your partner having fun is a great altruistic happiness that is difficult for many people to understand. Cuckolding isn't ...

Almost 60% of men and a 25% of women have a cuckold fantasy but many never talk about it.  Believe it or not, this fantasy can improve your sex life and your relationship when done correctly. If you are reading this there’s a high chance you’re at least a little into cuckolding. Maybe you are just exploring or looking for information. You've come to the right place.  Cuckolding is the idea that a married woman, maybe a mom or someone older is still highly sexually attractive to other men. That she’s sexually vivacious and alive. It’s creates a new space for a couple to be sexually open and experience new things in new ways.  It's also a turn on for a husband to see his wife in new sexual ways. Bringing in another person can revive sex drive and desires in a long-term relationship, and can go a long way to add excitement and spice. Society is very heterosexual and very monogamous, having another man in the bedroom and breaking the rules of monogamy is taboo and kinky and c...