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I've debated starting this blog, but I find many people have questions and there is more false information out there than accurate and helpful info. So here it is. As for me, I'm an genuine experienced bull. That means I have done the things I speak of and share from my personal views and experience. If you are just beginning to look into cuck, forget what you see in porn and most things online. Most of it comes from people who don't have a clue. It's fine for fantasy, but reality is very different.  The term "bull" is often misunderstood. For me it simply means a man who leads a couple in sexual exploration. It's not a threesome, swinging, cheating or some guy on a power trip that likes to fuck someone's wife. I don't get into humiliation, or excessive dominance. My goal is to enhance the sex life of the couple and allow them to explore things in a way that would not be possible one on one.  The term bull can be used in a general way to refer to a...

Cuckold: Improve Your Sex Life

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Almost 60% of men and a 25% of women have a cuckold fantasy but many never talk about it.  Believe it or not, this fantasy can improve your sex life and your relationship when done correctly. If you are reading this there’s a high chance you’re at least a little into cuckolding. Maybe you are just exploring or looking for information. You've come to the right place.  Cuckolding is the idea that a married woman, maybe a mom or someone older is still highly sexually attractive to other men. That she’s sexually vivacious and alive. It’s creates a new space for a couple to be sexually open and experience new things in new ways.  It's also a turn on for a husband to see his wife in new sexual ways. Bringing in another person can revive sex drive and desires in a long-term relationship, and can go a long way to add excitement and spice. Society is very heterosexual and very monogamous, having another man in the bedroom and breaking the rules of monogamy is taboo and kinky and c...

Video Advice from Caitlin V

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More than half of all men and a quarter of all women have the same fantasy, but nobody talks about it. The cuckolding fantasy, or wife sharing fantasy, can be a powerful way to strengthen the enjoyment of your sex life with your partner -- even if you never bring anyone else into the bedroom

Cuckold Fantasy Versus Reality

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Before we get into our latest topic I want to say thank you to all who have found and supported this blog. Over 8000 have shared thoughts, asked questions and sought advice and information here. I hope you find the info here helpful and I welcome you to reach out directly if I can be of assistance. So you've thought about cuck but should you make the leap into reality? Maybe. There are pros and cons. The growing popularity of cuckolding has likely introduced the idea to more couples, including those to whom it may never have otherwise occurred. Of course, there’s a huge difference between fantasizing about having sex with someone else, and the reality of it.  The fantasy of being a cuckold can be exciting, intoxicating and may revive a dull, vanilla sex life, whilst the realism of this dream can cause anxieties, fears of failure, inadequacy, friction and jealousy. Intriguingly, the few studies into this phenomenon that have been conducted suggest that the cuckolding fantasy is more...

The Mind Fuck of Cuck

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Why would anyone ever gain pleasure from seeing their woman fuck other men?  The answer can vary. Often people struggle to understand the deep mental side of cock that goes way beyond intense sex. Cuckoldry takes our deep shames and insecurities and then eroticizes them. Watching a partner with someone else, being present and orchestrating it is a mix of powerful emotions. Top performing individuals often enjoy power exchange. They go to work all day every day... and are "the man," "the alpha," "the leader." Cuck can be an escape from that.  Some  Cucks want their own inner ideal man to make love to their women. The man that they don't consider themselves to be, but the bull does embody. There can a homoerotic element to this sort of fantasy as well,  Sometimes people just find things hot and that's ok.  The idea that humans are automatically supposed to fit in some "correct" sexual preferences is wrong. If he's not a jealous type, th...

Rules of the Bull

Here are few rules to live by for bulls.  These are the rules I believe bulls in this lifestyle should strictly adhere to for the most gratifying results. There are steps to the plan, and some rules only apply to certain people, but it is important to know them all. Rule number 1 Only consider couples in a committed, solid trusting relationship who are mature and mentally capable of embracing and enjoying cuck.  Rule number 2  Focus on one couple at a time. This is important so you can cover everyone’s needs. When you begin cuckolding you will find it it much more than simply fucking the other man’s wife, and the rewards will be equally rewarding. Rule number 3 Never forget the hubby. This is important because if your hubby becomes unhappy it will have a negative impact on all. Rule number 4 Educate yourself. Educating yourself in diet, nutrition, and exercise will help you be a better bull. And while most man can fuck, few learn the art of pleasuring a woman. Most men st...

The Art of Bi Threesomes

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  I often struggle with the answer when I'm asked if I'm bi. I have no attraction to men at all. I don't kiss men, but over time I've become comfortable with not only close contact in sexual situations, but also bi sex.  For some couples bi sex is a huge turn on and as a bull, I'm all about turning a couple on, braking out of past limitations and making fantasy happen. I recall an audible gasp from a woman first seeing her man take my cock into his mouth. She later shared she almost climaxed just watching it. Another time a woman shared her fantasy was to witness man to man sex. She said it was the most erotic experience of her life.  So while I have no general interest in men, I've learned what  we are attracted to romantically may not always sync up with what our minds tell us turns us on. When a man is hesitant when it comes to cuck, I'll tell him to focus on how his body reacts and not how his mind has been programmed. Same concept really. It doesn't...

How to Find a Bull

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