I often struggle with the answer when I'm asked if I'm bi. I have no attraction to men at all. I don't kiss men, but over time I've become comfortable with not only close contact in sexual situations, but also bi sex.  For some couples bi sex is a huge turn on and as a bull, I'm all about turning a couple on, braking out of past limitations and making fantasy happen. I recall an audible gasp from a woman first seeing her man take my cock into his mouth. She later shared she almost climaxed just watching it. Another time a woman shared her fantasy was to witness man to man sex. She said it was the most erotic experience of her life.  So while I have no general interest in men, I've learned what  we are attracted to romantically may not always sync up with what our minds tell us turns us on. When a man is hesitant when it comes to cuck, I'll tell him to focus on how his body reacts and not how his mind has been programmed. Same concept really. It doesn't

  Cuckolding, watching your partner have sex with someone else, is a popular kink in the US, but not Europe. A sexual-fantasy researcher said the 400 people they interviewed in Belgium and the Netherlands didn't bring up cuckolding at all. That's likely because gender roles are more egalitarian and non-monogamy is more accepted in Europe, making cuckolding less taboo. Americans are often considered sexual prudes compared to their typically more uninhibited European counterparts. But there's one kink that Americans seem to enjoy much more than those overseas: cuckolding where one partner watches while their partner has sex with another person. On a recent podcast hosted by the Kinsey Institute sex researcher Justin Lehmiller, Mariëlle de Goede shared findings from her sexual-fantasy research in the Netherlands and Belgium. It involved conducting 400 interviews about people's sexual fantasies. When de Goede cross-referenced her European findings with previous research of

I've often been told that the involvement of an additional sex partner (such as a bull) can and does improve the sex life of a couple. My belief is guys tend to try harder and even learn a few techniques from watching and being challenged a bit. A study showed b oth men and women rated sex as more satisfying when men knew they had a sexual rival. This is likely due, in large part, to the fact that men said they put more effort into satisfying their partner when they had a rival. Women also reported that sex usually lasts longer in these situations. Men and women both reported that orgasms were easier to have, more intense, and longer lasting when men knew they had sexual rivals.  This is the deep psychological part of cuckold that many don't fully understand.  So what accounts for these changes in sexual behavior?  Researchers attempted to explain them through an evolutionary lens focusing on  sperm competition theory . The basic idea behind this is that men evolved to find sex

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  Q: I'm  trying to understand just what it's about but I've always assumed it was pretty uncommon (though to be honest I don't really "get" it, there are plenty of "weird" things that I can understand are turn-ons for people but the cuckold kink just has me baffled, not just the idea of being the cuckold but also being the "bull" as they call it).  Is the cuckold thing really all that common?  A: How common cuck is hard to say as many people aren't willing to admit their personal sexual activity. I can say the interest in the subject seems to have grown recently. I'm not surprised you don't understand it, as most people outside the lifestyle are confused as well. Maybe some stats will help explain things: Cuck does seem to be becoming more popular. Now it's easier than ever for people to explore and connect with others who have similar interests. There are around 6.25 million US couples that are active cuckolds There are mo