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I've debated starting this blog, but I find many people have questions and there is more false information out there than accurate and helpful info. So here it is. As for me, I'm an genuine experienced bull. That means I have done the things I speak of and share from my personal views and experience. If you are just beginning to look into cuck, forget what you see in porn and most things online. Most of it comes from people who don't have a clue. It's fine for fantasy, but reality is very different.  The term "bull" is often misunderstood. For me it simply means a man who leads a couple in sexual exploration. It's not a threesome, swinging, cheating or some guy on a power trip that likes to fuck someone's wife. I don't get into humiliation, or excessive dominance. My goal is to enhance the sex life of the couple and allow them to explore things in a way that would not be possible one on one.  The term bull can be used in a general way to refer to a

The Mind Fuck of Cuck

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Why would anyone ever gain pleasure from seeing their woman fuck other men?  The answer can vary. Often people struggle to understand the deep mental side of cock that goes way beyond intense sex. Cuckoldry takes our deep shames and insecurities and then eroticizes them. Watching a partner with someone else, being present and orchestrating it is a mix of powerful emotions. Top performing individuals often enjoy power exchange. They go to work all day every day... and are "the man," "the alpha," "the leader." Cuck can be an escape from that.  Some  Cucks want their own inner ideal man to make love to their women. The man that they don't consider themselves to be, but the bull does embody. There can a homoerotic element to this sort of fantasy as well,  Sometimes people just find things hot and that's ok.  The idea that humans are automatically supposed to fit in some "correct" sexual preferences is wrong. If he's not a jealous type, th

Rules of the Bull

Here are few rules to live by for bulls.  These are the rules I believe bulls in this lifestyle should strictly adhere to for the most gratifying results. There are steps to the plan, and some rules only apply to certain people, but it is important to know them all. Rule number 1 Only consider couples in a committed, solid trusting relationship who are mature and mentally capable of embracing and enjoying cuck.  Rule number 2  Focus on one couple at a time. This is important so you can cover everyone’s needs. When you begin cuckolding you will find it it much more than simply fucking the other man’s wife, and the rewards will be equally rewarding. Rule number 3 Never forget the hubby. This is important because if your hubby becomes unhappy it will have a negative impact on all. Rule number 4 Educate yourself. Educating yourself in diet, nutrition, and exercise will help you be a better bull. And while most man can fuck, few learn the art of pleasuring a woman. Most men stop when they a

The Art of Bi Threesomes

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  I often struggle with the answer when I'm asked if I'm bi. I have no attraction to men at all. I don't kiss men, but over time I've become comfortable with not only close contact in sexual situations, but also bi sex.  For some couples bi sex is a huge turn on and as a bull, I'm all about turning a couple on, braking out of past limitations and making fantasy happen. I recall an audible gasp from a woman first seeing her man take my cock into his mouth. She later shared she almost climaxed just watching it. Another time a woman shared her fantasy was to witness man to man sex. She said it was the most erotic experience of her life.  So while I have no general interest in men, I've learned what  we are attracted to romantically may not always sync up with what our minds tell us turns us on. When a man is hesitant when it comes to cuck, I'll tell him to focus on how his body reacts and not how his mind has been programmed. Same concept really. It doesn't

How to Find a Bull

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Why cuckolding is a more popular kink in the US than Europe, according to a sexual fantasy researcher

  Cuckolding, watching your partner have sex with someone else, is a popular kink in the US, but not Europe. A sexual-fantasy researcher said the 400 people they interviewed in Belgium and the Netherlands didn't bring up cuckolding at all. That's likely because gender roles are more egalitarian and non-monogamy is more accepted in Europe, making cuckolding less taboo. Americans are often considered sexual prudes compared to their typically more uninhibited European counterparts. But there's one kink that Americans seem to enjoy much more than those overseas: cuckolding where one partner watches while their partner has sex with another person. On a recent podcast hosted by the Kinsey Institute sex researcher Justin Lehmiller, Mariëlle de Goede shared findings from her sexual-fantasy research in the Netherlands and Belgium. It involved conducting 400 interviews about people's sexual fantasies. When de Goede cross-referenced her European findings with previous research of

A Video Intro to Cuck

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Cuck and Changes In Men’s Sexual Behavior

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I've often been told that the involvement of an additional sex partner (such as a bull) can and does improve the sex life of a couple. My belief is guys tend to try harder and even learn a few techniques from watching and being challenged a bit. A study showed b oth men and women rated sex as more satisfying when men knew they had a sexual rival. This is likely due, in large part, to the fact that men said they put more effort into satisfying their partner when they had a rival. Women also reported that sex usually lasts longer in these situations. Men and women both reported that orgasms were easier to have, more intense, and longer lasting when men knew they had sexual rivals.  This is the deep psychological part of cuckold that many don't fully understand.  So what accounts for these changes in sexual behavior?  Researchers attempted to explain them through an evolutionary lens focusing on  sperm competition theory . The basic idea behind this is that men evolved to find sex