The Psychology of A Cuckold Husband

Recently a reader suggested I dive a bit deeper into the mindset of the cuckold. Now I fully admit as a bull, my perspective dies not come from a cuckold and not be exact for everyone, but I can share what I have learned over the years.

Most cuckold submissives find themselves internally conflicted with a desire to please their wife in nonconventional ways. Some are unable to meet their needs for a number of reasons and some find pleasure in exploring taboo sexual desires and fantasies.  Cuckoldry is considered a fetish because it betrays a fundamental and age-old norms of a man will not want other men around his woman. We are socialized to accept the millenniums-old belief that monogamy is a virtue, and that infidelity is equated with immorality and instability,

Humans are not naturally monogamous. Otherwise infidelity would not occur. Nevertheless, we are taught to remain faithful to our partners and never stray and that can lead to a boring, predictable sex life, unfulfilled desires and can lead to the breakdown of the relationship. Cuckold contradicts the very ideals upon which monogamy is founded, and the popular notion of men being territorial and it being shameful to please your partner with the help of someone else.

Many people wrongly assume cuckold guys are weak and pathetic men. The vast majority of cuckolds are men in their 30s and up, and living comfortable lifestyles. They are usually married or have remained in long-term relationships. They are usually alpha males with above-average intelligence, hold high-power executive positions in their work and earn above-average incomes. Due to all of this, they need more mental stimulation than the average man. Men are often the ones to bring up the idea of cuckold with their partner first. 

He is immensely aroused by the thought of his woman with another man. He likes that she is desired by men. He wants to see his partner satisfied, but does not want to single handedly be responsible for that. He enjoys stepping back and seeing his wife being sexually dominated and often will masturbate and fantasize about such scenes.  This is often more rewarding than actual sex with his partner.

Being a cuckold is to experience a form of psychological masochism and stimulation. It creates a deep mix of feelings often in conflict with one another. Jealousy, arousal, inadequacy, admiration and lust all mixed together The emotions themselves are the sources of pleasure, bringing out some of our most intense responses. Many highly intelligent individuals wants to experience such feelings.

Another aspect for some men is cuckoldry gives them the chance to explore their bisexual desires While it is arousing to watch their wife with someone else, for some it is just as exciting to watch a naked man have sex,. The wife who understands and encourages these bisexual curiosities will sometimes lead to sexual interactions between the husband and the Bull. It becomes a safe way for both partners to explore the taboo together.