First Steps

One of the toughest things to get past is talking to your spouse about the idea of cuck. If you have had the fantasy and are unsure of the reaction, it can be very scary to even bring it up. If you don't feel like you can openly talk about it then forget the idea of it ever happening.

There are key things to consider;

I often suggest only married couples get into cuck, It can work for others, but it fails more often then not. The reason is a married couple is invested and committed to each other and can embrace cuck easier because of that. 

You have to be in solid and trusting relationship. If there are issues, cuck will not help.

You have to be able to be open and honest and communicate your feelings, desires and concerns to your spouse and your bull.

You have to be patient and sensitive to what each other are feeling. 

If you can honestly say you both can meet that criteria, then you may be a good candidate for the lifestyle.

Often men are concerned about how their wife will view them. Will they be seen as weak. Will they be humiliated by another man. I will tell you any man who can put his ego aside and please his wife with the help of another man is by no means weak. Only the strongest guys can embrace and enjoy this.

Often women are concerned they will be viewed as slutty or their husband may want other women in return. If you follow the points above that will not happen. As long as you both value your relationship and vow to protect that bond you are on the right path and the key is communication. It takes an honest evaluation of where your relationship is and where you want it to go.

You may be wondering why a couple in solid, trusting relationship would even want to consider cuck. There are a number of reasons. Often they are looking to spice up their sex life. It is often a turn on for both to know that a wife is desired by other men. Sometimes there are various issues will sexually satisfying your spouse. Other men simply love seeing there wife in an aroused state and not have to be solely responsible for pleasing her.

Even if you have checked all the boxes so far, it's natural to be reluctant. We all deal with things like body image issues to concerns about family and what if someone found out. All those questions can be answered and concerns dealt with, but only if you want them to be. It's important to really listen to each other and address each issue. 

Playing out the fantasy with each other can be a great way to start. Often just talking about it is huge turn on. Explore in your minds first before bringing another in. Remember, you can control every aspect of a fantasy. That's not the case in reality. Do not attempt cuck unless you are both sure you are ready to make that leap.