How, when, where?

 I want to stress each couple is different so no one answer applies to everyone. The are some general guidelines but it's up to you and your partner to decide details and limits. 

Some cucks like hearing about exploits. Others like to watch from a distance or be in the next room. Still others like to have some level of participation. You have to discover what is most comfortable and what one can handle. 

In my personal view I prefer a husband to be as active and a part of it all as he can. Cuck really is a three way relationship no matter what level of participation takes place. All should gain sexual arousal and satisfaction from it. It's for that reason I recommend couples have ongoing sessions with a single regular bull. It takes time to build comfort and trust and be able to really explore beyond previous sexual boundaries.

A steady bull who you both come to know and trust is not only less risky when it comes to physical and health safety, but more rewarding for all over time.

I always suggest finding an experienced bull, but that is not always easy to do. There is no shortage of guys willing to fuck a guys wife, but those who really understand the dynamics of cuck couples are rare. Plenty will talk a good game but are really out to just get laid with selfish motivations. I have heard stories about guys who literally ran out of rooms because they could not perform while being watched. 

A couple should really meet a bull together and decide if there is match. If someone is offended that sex does not happen on the first meeting then that's not the type of bull you want. Remember, a bull is not there to take the place of a husband but to enhance things for both of the couple.

I'm often asked about hotel vs home play. Again, each couple is different. Some like the idea of the bull in the marriage bed. Every time you lie down together, what happened in the bed will come to mind and often spark a sexual response to each other long after. Others prefer the neutral ground and escape of a hotel room. Usually I will meet a couple for out first sessions at a hotel. It's safer as there tend to be others around if there is ever a problem and no interruptions. Over time I will meet a the home of a couple if they wish.

A side note, you do have to be cautious with children in the home. Kids are curious and will often worry if the think another man might be showing their mother attention. Kids should have no part, not even a glimpse into ones sex life. So  hosting at home it should only be done when kids are away.

If you find a guy who does not have experience as a bull, then you will need to direct him a bit and expect a learning curve. It can work out great over time but understand it takes time (and some mistakes) for everyone to learn.