Q: Hi. I'm interested in being a bull and I thought my size would be something positive. My penis is 11 inches and while women I have been with love the look of it, it's usually uncomfortable for them or we don't go beyond oral. I can't wear condoms and often women are turned off by my size. Any advice?  A: You have in many ways a similar issue to guys who are too small. First, don't focus on mere penetration as your main goal in sex. There are so many more ways to please a woman. It is not a massive cock that makes one a good bull. It's being confident, listening to a couple, building trust.  The visual appeal of your cock is a turn on, so use that to your advantage. Understand why a woman might be hesitant though. So much of porn and fake portrayals of cuck show a guy with a huge cock. In reality and aroused vagina is anywhere from 4- 8 inches deep. To stretch beyond that can be painful. Go slow, allow a woman's body to adjust and don't force your e

  Q: I'm curious as to what attracts you to being a bull and do you leave when you are done or stay? A: I really enjoy being a part of a couple exploring their sexual desires in a way they simply can't one on one. So while many think it's a power trip or I'm some ego maniac, that's not the case. As for "after", I encourage the couple to reconnect right away. It may be the husband going down on her, it may be him entering her as soon as I pull out or it may be just kissing and talking about the experience. However a couple chooses, it's important they are together in an intimate way after. 

If this is the first post you have found here, I encourage you to go back and find earlier posts that explain many of things discussed here in detail. It's important to have good understanding of meanings and terms and what cuckolding is and isn't. For those considering cuckold, there are 4 basic levels on the journey from fantasy to reality. Not everyone will go through all the stages, in fact most won't. If you do progress to the 4th stage, you will have immersed yourself in the lifestyle and few leave it without some profound reason that prevents them continuing. What I mean to say is, you won't want to go back to vanilla sex ever again.  Level 1: Mind Cuck This is where the fantasy of cuck is in the mind, but often your spouse knows nothing of it. One is afraid to mention the thought fearing the reaction of the spouse. You may secretly explore cuck porn or chatrooms. All of which tend to offer a highly distorted view of cuck. Often this can be damaging to a relation

Q: I'm a happily married woman. We have a good sex life and my husband began talking about cuck with me. After some time we had our first try at it. He loved it, I'm not so sure. I kind of regret crossing the line of fantasy. Does anyone ever regret doing it? A: It's natural to have a flood of confusing emotions and very important to talk about them with your husband and bull. While I don't know your situation, often regrets come from rushing things and not being clear about limits and boundaries. You need to have an honest discussion and figure out what you liked and did not like about your experience. Are there things you can improve or change, or it's quite possible cuck just is not for you. There are so many factors that only you can evaluate. Maybe you need a different bull or time to get comfortable with him. It could be the place you choose for your encounters. It's normal to question things and allow time to develop the relationship, but no one should ha