From the Mailbag: Size Situation

  Q: Hi. I'm interested in being a bull and I thought my size would be something positive. My penis is 11 inches and while women I have been with love the look of it, it's usually uncomfortable for them or we don't go beyond oral. I can't wear condoms and often women are turned off by my size. Any advice? 

A: You have in many ways a similar issue to guys who are too small. First, don't focus on mere penetration as your main goal in sex. There are so many more ways to please a woman. It is not a massive cock that makes one a good bull. It's being confident, listening to a couple, building trust. The visual appeal of your cock is a turn on, so use that to your advantage. Understand why a woman might be hesitant though. So much of porn and fake portrayals of cuck show a guy with a huge cock. In reality and aroused vagina is anywhere from 4- 8 inches deep. To stretch beyond that can be painful. Go slow, allow a woman's body to adjust and don't force your entire length. Your attitude and understanding will go a long way to becoming a great bull for a couple.