From the Mailbag: Why A Bull?

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 Q: I'm curious as to what attracts you to being a bull and do you leave when you are done or stay?

A: I really enjoy being a part of a couple exploring their sexual desires in a way they simply can't one on one. So while many think it's a power trip or I'm some ego maniac, that's not the case. As for "after", I encourage the couple to reconnect right away. It may be the husband going down on her, it may be him entering her as soon as I pull out or it may be just kissing and talking about the experience. However a couple chooses, it's important they are together in an intimate way after. 

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