Tips for Beginners

We all have to start somewhere and no one is perfect the first time. Give yourself time and permission to learn and make a few mistakes. If you think you are ready to try things for real, hopefully some of this will help.

Like all sexual fantasies, cuckolding is easier said than done. It's a challenge finding someone you trust enough to bring into your relationship that you are both comfortable with. You may discover the real thing is nothing at all like what has played out in your head. You can control every aspect of fantasy. Not so in real life. Of course, you never know until you try, so it's best to set yourself up for the greatest chance for success. 

Hopefully you have already openly and honestly discussed things with you partner, Not only talked, but listened. You know the concerns, the rules and the boundaries. That is a vital first step, Don't rush things or dismiss any concerns of your partner. Cuck is not a good fit for everyone. 

Finding that person you are going to invite to join you for your first time is really very hard. It's easy to find a person willing to have sex with you, but to find a match for both, that will have to patience, respect for your relationship and one the both are comfortable with can at times seem like an impossible task. You are going to have to weed out a lot of fakes and wannabe's. Luckily you have the internet to help you seek and screen people. You can place a personal ad, use and app or find a chat room. Most cities have some sort of alternative lifestyle scene. You just just have to look for it.

I'm often asked about tips for new couples. Here's my best advice"

1. Take it slow. Part of all this is discovering desires and limits with your partner. You may start off by simply flirting with someone while out. Discussing things in bed. Many start by exploring a threesome. There is no need to rush and try to do it all the first time. 

2. Accept your partners limits. Don't expect a bull to magically seduce your spouse. Don't trick them or set the up for something they are not ready for. Many are never able to handle the reality of cuck and it's important to respect that. Your fantasy may not be a turn on for your spouse.

3. Remember the bull you choose is still a person. Often it's easy to just consider them a sex toy. Do not just consider their cock size, skin color or how attractive they may be. Be respectful and you will have a much better experience.

5. Don't let a fantasy ruin your life. Avoid risk such as unprotected sex, pregnancy risk sex and anything that is going to have a life long impact. Sometimes these are fantasies but keep in mind you will have to return to reality.

Cuck can be great when done the right way for the right reasons. If you have other questions be sure to email me.