Ad Copy - Writing to find a Bull

Often couples have no idea what should be included when placing an ad seeking a bull. First is be realistic. You want to be clear about what you are seeking, but don't set so many limits that very few (if any) match. 

Make the age range as wide as is truly acceptable to you both. Most experienced bulls are going to be older. 40's-60's generally.  If you are a younger or new couple you may want to consider an older bull. There are younger bulls and sometimes younger is more attractive to a couple. Just know generally younger bulls will have less experience working with couples. 

Next be sure and list things that are a "no go" for you. it's just as important to share what you don't want, as what you do want. Is smoking an issue for you? Should your bull be single? You can discuss details with any potential bulls, but listing turn offs and non negotiables will help filter some responses.

Avoid using terms like "seduce" or "looking to try". Most women are not going to be seduced by a total stranger. It makes it seem like only one of you has considered this. Saying you want to "try" things makes you sound unsure of what you want.

Don't make the box too small. What I mean is don't limit the time of location. If you say "We can host between 1-2PM tomorrow, that makes it very hard to make work for many.

Photos are always good but make sure they are clear and real. You don't have to show your face, but sharing a view of your body will help responses and help gauge interest. 

Be flexible. if you live in a rural area, you might need to be willing to travel to find a good bull. Most ads will get many responses, but very few candidates that actually fit what you are seeking. Hopefully some of these tips will help you find the right ones.