Exploring Cuck

Being a long time bull I have learned much over the years. Each couple is different, but some things are pretty universal. Women, while they knew their husband thought they were beautiful, being desired by other men was even more validating to them.

These couples negotiate boundaries, both mutual and individual. They share their deepest secrets and sexual desires. While there bond is strong, many come to realize monogamy is not a reasonable goal for them. They knew themselves well enough to say, "This monogamy thing doesn't work for me" — and as a result, were able to negotiate marriages from a place of self-acceptance and self-knowledge. While this type of relationship won't work for everyone, for many it does.

I personally feel, that it is important to be able to talk to your partner about what you both expect in terms of sex, your turn-ons, your fantasies, and what your level of comfort is, with what the other person may desire.  Exploration in an otherwise healthy and mutually loving marriage. is part of intimacy.  When you are in a loving relationship, and feel safe enough to explore, it can be a beautiful way to enjoy intimacy and the love between two people.

One of the most extensive surveys of sexual desires ever completed found that about 58% of men and ⅓ of women have had cuckolding fantasies. Fantasy does not mean it will become reality, but it gives you and idea of how common the idea is versus how often it's talked about.

There’s fascinating biological research exploring a potential root to the cuckolding desire in heterosexual men. When a man thinks his female partner has been with another man, he gets erect sooner, ejaculates more intensely, and releases more sperm than he would have previously. In fact men release more sperm when they are thinking about someone making love to their wife than when they think about themselves making love to their wife.

Cuckolding can also be fun if you enjoy watching your partner, as it’s basically like watching live porn. It can also allow you to see what your partner looks like while having sex in a way that is impossible to know when you are the one doing the fucking. Finally, it can also be a way to explore your sexual boundaries.