From the Mailbag: Why Does My Husband Want This?

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 Q: My husband has always been into seeing me with other people, and though I’ve never really understood, I entertain it because I love him and want him fulfilled. However, can you help me understand why so I feel a little more comfortable?

A: I'm happy to give you my view, but it's important you have the conversation with the only one who can truly answer your question and that is your husband.

The reason behind why certain guys enjoy sharing their wife is not always the same. Some like seeing the wife being pleasured and satisfied. It may be that they have issues sexual satisfying her on their own or some just enjoy viewing their wife proactively from a different view.

Others enjoy the emotions stirred by such encounters. It may be the emotional conflict between arousal and humiliation. Or many enjoy the taboo nature of a non traditional sexual relationship with the wife and bull.

There is a deep psychological aspect to cuck. I've often said cuck in 90% mental and 10% physical. Often even husbands haven't truly explored what it is about it that is such a powerful turn on for them.

What may be ones desire, can also be ones fear. Often cuck is combination of both. As long as you are in a healthy and trusting relationship, these discussions together can help you both understand and enjoy your unique sexual explorations together.


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