Being the Bull

There is always some confusion on what a Bull is and is not and you may get different answers from different people. 

It’s not an effort to treat a male as sub-human or as an animal. It has no racial connotation. Its origin is in ranching and farming where a bull has a single purpose – being introduced to the herd of females for one purpose – sex. So, when transposed over human complexities, it implies a male whose single role with a (married) woman is sex. That's it.

When a male first experiences a married woman, either by an affair or through the early stages of cuckolding, he is only a bull by the narrow definition. There hasn’t been opportunity or invitation to be more than that, but as experience mounts, either with a single couple or successive couples, a bull with the intellectual capacity and emotional maturity required can start to become aware of the complexities involved in being the other man for a couple and protect the relationship between them. It is only then he becomes a true Bull for a couple as opposed to someone just having sex with a married woman. 

Many couples start off with a guy who has little to no experience. This has pros and cons. You can learn and explore together but mistakes will be made. Often a bull with little experience does not know how to guide a couple through their first experiences. He may been seen more as replacement for the husband rather than vessel for sexual exploration for the couple.

Cuckold is a journey for a couple. One of the reasons I suggest couples seek an experienced bull is sex is only part of cuck. Cuckolding is an intellectual fetish because the sex is simply a single ingredient to the psychological and emotional mix.

A bit of advice for any bulls reading this or those who desire to serve a couple as a bull. Don't focus on sex right away. Yes you need to be able to perform and most likely while being watched but your focus should not just be to have sex with mans wife.

Listen more than you speak; try to understand motivations and needs of both. What are the desires, concerns, fears of both? How can you best address them? What are the boundaries and limits? Respect those always. It's important to build trust with the couple.

Be man enough to recognize any uncertainty or doubt in a couple. It may mean you don't get laid, but a true bull seeks the right couple and does not try to force a couple if they are not ready or if it may do harm to their relationship.

Choose actions which benefit them the most; balance their individual needs. While you may be in a dominant position, cuckold is not about your own personal pleasure. 

Don't rush. Build trust and enjoy the journey together. You can be a great bull that strengthens the bonds of their marriage with patience and understanding. 

Everyone involved has a responsibility for the well being of the others. You must be honest, allow for other to be heard and sensitive to what is happening outside the bedroom.