From the Mailbag: How is Cuck not Cheating?

Q: I'm just exploring this for the first time. You say cuck is not cheating. How is it not cheating?

A: Thanks for the question. I can certainly see how from the outside it may appear to be cheating, however cheating is a selfish act that betrays trust and in most cases vows. It can be highly destructive. I don't condone cheating ever. If you are in a committed relationship you should value that. 

Cuckolding is in fact an act of honesty and trust. Both should be involved aware and should approve. There should be no secrecy between the couple. Nothing hidden.

When one cheats often times the partner can sense the betrayal. There can be feelings of guilt, mistrust fear, loss. Cuck is the opposite. You have open communication. You go out of your way to please your spouse.  You share things on a much deeper level. When this is done within a loving, trusting marriage, both can focus on the erotic elements of such an adventure and begin to experience things with a bull a couple can't with just the two of them. Often it strengthens the relationship and can even improve the sex life of a couple.

All of the couples I’ve been involved with loved each other and were very happy in their relationship, but they desired something. In most cases that was simple sexual fulfillment beyond what they had know. Cuckolding allows a couple to experience greater sexual satisfaction while still enjoying the other aspects of their relationship. If you think about it, it’s much easier to find someone sexually compatible than someone compatible to share your life with, making this dynamic a natural fit for many couples who want their love and their sex to be fulfilling.

I hope that answers your question. Have fun exploring.