From the Mailbag: What's it like to be a Bull?

Q: What's it like to be a bull for cuckold couples?

A: Being bull has the lot of responsibilities and is about much more than sex. A bull has to understand what a couple is looking for be able to deliver it or have the sense not get involved.  

The myth is couples find bulls just because husband is not able to satisfy his wife. This is not always the case. Human nature is always looking for new things, that is why this curiosity of allowing a 3rd person in their sexual activity is appealing to many. They may have a great sex life, but want to take their sex life to next level. 

A Cuck husband that allows his wife to enjoy a bull is not weak or somehow less of a man, rather he is strong and open to pleasing his wife in new ways. So bull has to respect the husband and wife.

Being a bull doesn’t mean you are allowed to have sex with a mans wife whenever you want, they are still a couple and you are merely part of their private sex life. Understanding that the couple has their own family, their own problems and giving them their space is the responsibility of bull.

Bulls can not just do whatever they want to do with a wife. Understanding desires and limits of a couple and acting accordingly is another responsibility of the bull. 

A Bull does not take the place of the husband.  He does not own them, or control them outside the bedroom. He must maintain the privacy and dignity of a couple.

Being a bull is not easy and not everyone is suited for it. Bulls should be versatile in all manners including, decision making, bed skills, emotional, and physical as well. One who thinks it is just having sex with wife has very wrong ideas about it.