Views from a Bull: What Cuck is/isn't

I don't openly share what I do outside of certain circles. I write here in the hopes that what is shared will be of help and interest to others who also are limited in such discussions. I didn't ever set out to be a bull, much less write about my sexual experiences with couples. Unfortunately there are very few objective sources of information on the topic and I've had so many questions within those circles I thought the answers needed to be shared. To most cuckold is a forbidden act that is rarely publicly discussed. That changes here.

Liberating Cuck

Cuckolding is a intense experience that should be tailored to the needs of each couple. There should be lots of talk about everything beforehand.  Still when it happens the first time there may be panic and genuine fear. Expect confusing emotions and being unsure of what you should be feeling. One may feel jealous and aroused at the same time. Once you get past those initial feelings if uncertainty, a well prepared couple with a good bull will find how liberating the experience truly is.

Forget the Script

Insiders know cuckolding is very different from how it gets portrayed in porn videos and pictures. Many of the racist and degrading things out there make me cringe. Cuckolding rarely if ever is mentioned outside of porn or chatrooms, so the impression that is created by porn and cuckolding web sites often paints a biased and unrealistic picture of experience. Most new couples I speak with I have to unteach most of what they think they know. 

A cuckold experience will impact your relationship. That impact can be very positive or very negative depending on the choices you make. Some couples should never do it as it will risk the relationship. Alternatively it can be a wonderful experience that impact the relationship for the better.

Cuck is what works for you

I often speak in general terms, but what cuck is and is not to you is really as unique as each couple. It is preposterous believing cuckolding exists strictly in one form. Instead cuckolding is a very sensual experience that has many forms. It can be:

• An open-relationship whereby the man remains monogamous and the woman enters a long-term sexual relationship with another man.
• A activity that incorporates domination (by the bull or wife)  and submission (by the husband) is a part of the experience. There can be a lot of variation and depth to the experience. A lot depends on the boundaries and desires of the couple.
• It may simply be adding someone will extensive sexual experience and capabilities to aid in sexual satisfaction. 
• All this can be one time or ongoing

That just scratches the surface of what cuck can be. Each couple must decide what works for them and what aspect they want to avoid. As I bull I don't participate in everything mentioned. That's why it is just as critical for a bull to find a good couples that matches his skill and abilities. 

Not the size guys

I have discussed this a number of times in the past so I'll just briefly mention it. It is arrogant to assume small penis size = cuckolding. There is a lot of research that contradicts that and cuckolding is a lot deeper than that. In fact the majority of the cuckold experience is psychological and not sexual. I don't have a massive penis. I have been with couples where the husband was actually larger. What I do have is the knowledge of how to pleasure the entire body beyond just penetration. My advice is seek a good person, not just a massive penis. 

Open and Honest

I think the key to any relationship is communication and honesty. In cuck the need for clear concise communication is essential. If cuckolding is going to work then a couple needs to communicate about likes, dislikes, desires fantasy and work through any issue that may arise. It's important to be open with your bull as well. The more you share, the smoother things tend to go.

Protecting Each Other

I make it a point to protect the relationship I'm invited into. if I ever feel like I'm not a positive part of the relationship then I end my role with the couple. Not all bulls care so it's important for couple to look out for each other. Your marriage and relationship comes first. if you can't make that promise stay away from cuck. Cuckolding maybe the steamy experience the two of you want.  However, your relationship with your spouse must take priority. Losing sight of that brings terrible outcomes for all.

Cuckolding really is what you make it out to be. It not something to be rushed or taken lightly. It's not for every couple. Nonetheless there is nothing to fear if it's understood and everyone is in it for the right reasons. The key is communicating and respecting boundaries.  If you can respect each other and communicate then I can almost guarantee that you will have an enjoyable cuckolding experience.