The Whispered Conversation: Mainstream Cuckold

When I first began to learn about cuckold after a few adventures there was little information. Besides some raunchy porn or stories that usually involved an interracial belittling scene, actual helpful insight was scarce. I was fortunate to be asked to join a few MFM threesomes, but the concept of being a Bull and all that went with it was unknown to me. My initial reaction was this reflected an unhealthy relationship. In time I found the exact opposite.

Most people that fully enjoy cuck have a strong healthy and very honest relationship. They are willing to explore what has been labeled shameful and taboo by others who have no experience or logical way to judge such a lifestyle.

While ones sex life is and should be kept private, many couples who think they may be alone in their cuckold desires really are not. In recent years, mainstream acknowledgment and attention to cuckold and the hotwife fantasy lifestyle has exploded, shifting in extraordinary ways. 

In 2018, the first psychological research study of people who fantasized about cuckolding was published. That study exposed that many people fantasize about cuckolding and that for many of them, this sexual practice was a healthy part of their lives.

The term “cuck” has been commonly used as an insult, for men who are weak and unmasculine. Yet as a bull I find any man willing to put his ego aside and please his wife in such ways is most often stronger than the average man. 

Studies find 45 percent of men sexually fantasize about watching their female partners with other men and those are the ones who are bring honest. Yet as mainstream attention to cuckolding has increased, a shift has occurred, away from a focus on the male dominated sex fantasy, towards an elevation of the female desires that are the focus of cuckolding.

No longer is it simply men trying to talk their spouse into a taboo fantasy. It's become more common for women to seek out cuckold relationships and share desires with their partner. 

The cross section of society that engages in cuck as diverse as you can get with a variety of ages, socio-economic, races, genders and sexual persuasions. 

Many men who are alpha males in every other aspect of life have told me they found giving up control was erotic and seeing their partners with other men increased their own sexual desire and performance. Women often share a similar experience.

As the veil around cuckolding continues to be lifted, we are discovering more of the fascinating, complex nuances of our sexualities. Through fostering self-acceptance honest discussions and safe exploration of desires, we are able to create healthy ways to integrate sexuality into lives and relationships.