Q: This isn't exactly cuckold related, but I am hoping you can help. We are about to go into our first group sex encounter and wanted to know if you had any advice for us? A: Without knowing your level of experience with other forms of sex my advice will be pretty general, but here it is: Decide ahead of time what your expectations and boundaries are. Not only what you are willing to do, but what your spouse is ready to witness. Be open to the desires of others, but also firm on your own limits.  It's incredibly important to be safe. Protecting yourself and your partner are vital. Don't get carried away and let one experience effect the rest of your life.  Communication is key. Make sure you give and get consent. Give yourself time to adjust. No need to do it all right away. I don't recommend excessive drinking or any drug use. It will cloud your abilities and judgement. Be open, but don't be afraid to say no. Don't be offended to hear no.  Don't hide the f...

While most of the views here are presented from my (The bull) perspective, I asked a cuckold husband to share his thoughts in the hopes some might find it helpful. His words are below: I never dreamed I would be in such a position with my wife and while I would love to discuss it at times, there are few people you can open up to about such things. Many people have a very wrong idea of what cuck even is. I live happily as a cuckold. We have been married for 17 years and intend to stay married. I have not had good sex with my wife for virtually our entire marriage. I am not good in bed, and suffer from premature ejaculation. Sex always terrified me; and sexual expectations are unbearable. Past sexual moments always ended in disappointment for both of us. We share physical touch, but sex for us now is very different.   To some all that might sound awful. To me it works perfectly. We love each other and are both satisfied. When we first met our bull it was strictly conversation. L...

 Q: I've been reading your blog and as a married woman both fascinated and terrified by what I have read, I'm curious about the impact of romantic feelings developing for a bull and the impact of having an additional sex partner. Will you address this? A: Thanks for the question. S ome people are better than others at compartmentalizing their romantic longings from their sexual desires. For others, emotions and touch naturally entwine, making causal sex harder. Research shows that women tend to have a harder time than men with preventing emotional attachment, and when this happens they are more prone to feeling used, depressed, regretful, or embarrassed after the fact . It's important to determine what type of person you are before entering into an additional sexual relationship.   It can be easy to tell yourself that it's just sex, just for fun, but for some people, it may turn out to be very hard to keep your feelings in check. So, it's vital to assess expectation...

No matter what role you play (watching, joining, awaiting her return from a date) in order to be a good cuck and maintain a solid sexual connection with your partner it is essential you know how to properly eat pussy. Clean or filled, smooth or hairy, there is no more intimate connection than lips to vagina. Even guys with size or erectile issues can do this. If you have a mouth, you can make a woman cum. The issue is many guys have no clue what they are doing when their face is between her legs. I'm going to try to fix that. First understand the parts of the woman. Google it if you have to. Study it. Be able to find all her parts blind, because you will be.  Technique is just as important as attitude. You should savor a woman. The smell of her body, the taste of her on your tongue, the sounds she makes as her body reacts to each movement. Guys should get lost in the moment and really connect with her and share in the pleasure you are giving her. To have command of a woman's bo...