How Common Is Cuck?

Cuckold is more common than most people think, but it's not openly discussed outside of trusted circles. Today is easier than ever to connect with like minded people online and ask questions without risking being judged. 

While accurate numbers are hard to come by, this the best estimate so far:

• There are around 6 million US couples that are active cuckolds

• There are most cuckold couples in the US states: “Rhode Island, New Hampshire, and West Virginia”

• 35% of men are either “interested” or “very interested” in trying cuckoldry

• 6 out of 10 men have fantasized about it whereas only 3 out of 10 women have

• Searches on “Cuckold” on porn websites have increased by 57% in the last 3 years

There are around 60-70 million married couples in the US, and a smaller part of those have either practiced it earlier or want to. Some have tried it with other partners and tried to convince their current partner to try it, and others decide as a couple to try it out.

• 80% of the married couples that are active have tried it with an earlier partner

• 20% of the married couples that are active have never tried it before

• Only 2 out of 10 married couples get a divorce due to jealousy from cuckoldry

• Compared to e.g. open marriages this is really low. In Open marriages, it is 92% that sooner or later end in a divorce.

Cuckold interest spans the ages of couples, however older couples in a solid trusting relationship tend to have the most success. 50% of cuckold couples aged 18-29 end in a breakup. 

It can be difficult to start as cuckolds. You can easily be limited by partner, worried about what others might think, technology (not able to find the place/website where you can find others that are interested) etc.

Step 1: First of all its important to feel if it’s something that you really wanna try, or if it’s something that you just like the idea about. Normally, it is a good idea to wait and see how the idea develops. The worst you can do is to react on it right away. You might regret that!

Step 2: After you’ve decided that it’s a good idea. You should definitely talk with your partner about it. Communication is in general important in all steps of this process – it is an area where there are a lot of feelings involved, so please be cautious and be as open as possible, both of you!. The way many starts the conversation with their partner is to state the fact that you would love your relationship to be a spiced a bit up, and then see how it goes from their. 

Remember to always be respectful about your partners decision. This could end up in a bad way where one of you suddenly feels that an ultimatum should be placed – and that’s not the way to go.