Cuckold Fantasy Versus Reality

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So you've thought about cuck but should you make the leap into reality? Maybe. There are pros and cons.

The growing popularity of cuckolding has likely introduced the idea to more couples, including those to whom it may never have otherwise occurred. Of course, there’s a huge difference between fantasizing about having sex with someone else, and the reality of it. 

The fantasy of being a cuckold can be exciting, intoxicating and may revive a dull, vanilla sex life, whilst the realism of this dream can cause anxieties, fears of failure, inadequacy, friction and jealousy.

Intriguingly, the few studies into this phenomenon that have been conducted suggest that the cuckolding fantasy is more prevalent within more conservative, macho societies. Those are the ones in which notions of being a “real man” are intimately connected with those of spousal fidelity. It’s been argued that cuckoldry provides a welcome release from the burdens of having to live out this alpha-male role, or meet the social expectations it entails. 

Cuckolds today are not weaklings, idiots or pushovers. These men have found a sexual fetish niche that makes them happy. Like many other kinks, being a cuckold can be a stress reliever as well as a primeval experience.

Some want to try the real thing, either because the cuck kink is too hot to resist or because they’re sure it will work out well. Truthfully, we can’t know how we will react in these situations. This is exactly why some people regret threesomes.

Yet for people who are secure in themselves and their relationships and have good communication, even a less-than-stellar cuckolding experience doesn’t have to hurt their relationship.

Others enjoy the taboo nature of cuck, the desire to try something new or a way to add an extra spark to your sexual relationship. A cuckold relationship can involve complex emotions and exposure to factors that can affect well-being. 

There are many types of cuckold combinations. Some may stick to one others try several. 

Whether you’re a fledgling cuckold or a cuckqueen, please take your time in deciding if this is the right path for you both to take. Is this just a dream or a fantasy? Do not take you sexual journey lightly. Talk and talk more about it. Do not force your partner into this lifestyle if they don’t want to. 

As long as all the parties take care to consider the feelings and implications for all involved, a cuckolding arrangement can work for some people. The reasons are as diverse as the people who have them.