I do a good portion of meet couples in hotels. I tend to prefer it over home meets.  Here are a few of the positives of fucking in a rented room: You get privacy, which may not be available at home. If a couple has kids or a neighbor that likes to drop by it can kill the vibe.  You can use the pool or hot tub or spring for a room that has a hot tub in it, which means you can try sex in the water or simply relax next to your lover. If you have a small shower, you might be able to book a room with a shower large enough for you to have shower sex in. Someone else does the cleanup and makes the bed, so you can truly relax and really use the room well. For some people, it just feels naughtier to have sex somewhere else, even if there’s no particular reason. This is the same reason we recommend trying sex outside of the bedroom if you’ve never done that before! Sometimes sex in a cheap motel room makes things a bit naughtier.  You can meet a long-distance partner half...

A good bull isn't just winging it. There are rules that any respectable bull should know and follow.  These are the rules I believe every Cuckold Bull wanting to be in this lifestyle should strictly adhere to, to achieve the most gratifying results. There are steps to the plan, and some rules only apply to certain ones. But it is important to know them all. Rule number 1 – Seek married women who are open about desires with their husbands. Avoid boyfriend / girlfriend relationships and those just looking to cheat.  Open married women make the best Hotwives. These women are extremely submissive and open to exploring sexuality.  Rule number 2 – Focus on one couple at a time. This is important so you can cover everyone’s needs. When you begin cuckolding you will find it is much more than simply fucking a man’s wife. You will have to meet the needs of the couple and be focused on them. Multiple couples and distractions cause issues for all.  Rule number 3 – Never forget t...

  What's the most  the most common fetish in the nation? Feet. To each their own, but for me feet just carry the rest of the fun parts.  While data such of this is always suspect as many keep their fetish desires private, it gives us a peak at what others are interested in. Some states are vanilla like tickling while others go hardcore with fisting and bondage. For those into cuckold, you might want to visit Texas or Nevada. Just 5 years ago Alabama held the number 1 spot for cuck couples. TX was at 27 and NV at 11. You know that one chair that's in the corner of every hotel room? Now you know what that's really for.

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All couples, but especially those new to cuck, worry about problems that can occur. Let's talk about some  problems you may face along the way and give you a simple solutions exploring cuckoldry. Problem: Too Much, Too Soon One of the most common problems for couples is doing too much too soon. Sometimes, this is a case of too quickly blurring the line between fantasy and reality. In other cases, rushing the level of control before one can adjust to  the change. Cuck is about seduction, building trust, and honest communication on both sides of the relationship. While some blurring of the lines between fantasy and reality is normal, too much can cause even the best of intentions to backfire. Though exciting, cuck can be overwhelming if rushed. Usually, a couple has built the fantasy years before developing a relationship. However, the fantasies and desires of each partner may  be very different. Commonalties must be discovered and explored while respecting the limits of yo...

One of the big hang ups many guys have when it comes to cuck is the interaction with another male. Getting close contact or enjoying seeing a man sexually can make one question their own manliness.  Yet  research exploring women’s experiences of threesomes involving two males and one female has revealed that women find it more desirable if the men opt to interact sexually with one another. Yes, it's often a huge turn on for a woman to see her man in new sexual situation. I will tell you that have zero attraction to men. At the same time I have no hang up when it comes bi sex with a couple. I know it's a turn on and it's my goal that both in a couple enjoy the experience. How far that goes depends on the comfort level of the couple.  Why do women like watching straight men men in homoerotic sex? Most often they cite  increasing their own sexual arousal and providing a safer, less objectifying environment as reasons that they would want to see two men interact sex...

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Recently a reader suggested I dive a bit deeper into the mindset of the cuckold. Now I fully admit as a bull, my perspective dies not come from a cuckold and not be exact for everyone, but I can share what I have learned over the years. Most cuckold submissives find themselves internally conflicted with a desire to please their wife in nonconventional ways. Some are unable to meet their needs for a number of reasons and some find pleasure in exploring taboo sexual desires and fantasies.  Cuckoldry is considered a  fetish  because it betrays a fundamental and age-old norms of a man will not want other men around his woman.  We are socialized to accept the millenniums-old belief that monogamy is a virtue, and that infidelity is equated with immorality and instability, H umans are not naturally monogamous. Otherwise infidelity would not occur. Nevertheless, we are taught to remain faithful to our partners and never stray and that can lead to a boring, pre...

I started this blog as a way to share my views with others who had an interest in real cuckoldry and seemed to have so many questions. My experience with couples has mostly been positive, but that is result of effort and not just luck. I laugh at the way cuck is portrayed in porn and other media. Most times it is not close to reality.  There is a lot of misunderstanding on the topic and few places where people can find quality information and ask their own questions. Over 10,000 people have found this page. They have shared the fantasy and some have begun their own exploration journey of sexual desires, taboos and deep emotions.    If you find anything here helpful, I'm glad. Even if you only discover that not everyone into cuck is some perverted deviant. Most are normal friendly people who are just seeking some excitement that is widely misunderstood.  As I approach writing my 100 article here, I'm not sure how much more I can share without just repeating what has a...

 Q: Can you explain more about the psychology of cuckolding? A: I'm no doctor and it's a deep subject not easily explained, but let me make an attempt.  Some people think guys who are cuckolds have some kind of sex disorder or “losers" of some sort. I can confirm they are wrong along don't understand other misconceptions about cuckoldry. Being a cuckold requires you to be confident about yourself most of all. Otherwise you can't see your partner with someone else. You also need to be in a loving relationship and both partners need to be able to completely trust each other. Both partners also need to be clear why they are doing it and also set certain boundaries. If you are careful about it, it can be one of the great joy's of being happily married . As for the psychology behind it. Sometimes its very simple. Just the happiness of seeing your partner having fun is a great altruistic happiness that is difficult for many people to understand. Cuckolding isn't ...

Almost 60% of men and a 25% of women have a cuckold fantasy but many never talk about it.  Believe it or not, this fantasy can improve your sex life and your relationship when done correctly. If you are reading this there’s a high chance you’re at least a little into cuckolding. Maybe you are just exploring or looking for information. You've come to the right place.  Cuckolding is the idea that a married woman, maybe a mom or someone older is still highly sexually attractive to other men. That she’s sexually vivacious and alive. It’s creates a new space for a couple to be sexually open and experience new things in new ways.  It's also a turn on for a husband to see his wife in new sexual ways. Bringing in another person can revive sex drive and desires in a long-term relationship, and can go a long way to add excitement and spice. Society is very heterosexual and very monogamous, having another man in the bedroom and breaking the rules of monogamy is taboo and kinky and c...

More than half of all men and a quarter of all women have the same fantasy, but nobody talks about it. The cuckolding fantasy, or wife sharing fantasy, can be a powerful way to strengthen the enjoyment of your sex life with your partner -- even if you never bring anyone else into the bedroom

Before we get into our latest topic I want to say thank you to all who have found and supported this blog. Over 8000 have shared thoughts, asked questions and sought advice and information here. I hope you find the info here helpful and I welcome you to reach out directly if I can be of assistance. So you've thought about cuck but should you make the leap into reality? Maybe. There are pros and cons. The growing popularity of cuckolding has likely introduced the idea to more couples, including those to whom it may never have otherwise occurred. Of course, there’s a huge difference between fantasizing about having sex with someone else, and the reality of it.  The fantasy of being a cuckold can be exciting, intoxicating and may revive a dull, vanilla sex life, whilst the realism of this dream can cause anxieties, fears of failure, inadequacy, friction and jealousy. Intriguingly, the few studies into this phenomenon that have been conducted suggest that the cuckolding fantasy is more...

Why would anyone ever gain pleasure from seeing their woman fuck other men?  The answer can vary. Often people struggle to understand the deep mental side of cock that goes way beyond intense sex. Cuckoldry takes our deep shames and insecurities and then eroticizes them. Watching a partner with someone else, being present and orchestrating it is a mix of powerful emotions. Top performing individuals often enjoy power exchange. They go to work all day every day... and are "the man," "the alpha," "the leader." Cuck can be an escape from that.  Some  Cucks want their own inner ideal man to make love to their women. The man that they don't consider themselves to be, but the bull does embody. There can a homoerotic element to this sort of fantasy as well,  Sometimes people just find things hot and that's ok.  The idea that humans are automatically supposed to fit in some "correct" sexual preferences is wrong. If he's not a jealous type, th...

Here are few rules to live by for bulls.  These are the rules I believe bulls in this lifestyle should strictly adhere to for the most gratifying results. There are steps to the plan, and some rules only apply to certain people, but it is important to know them all. Rule number 1 Only consider couples in a committed, solid trusting relationship who are mature and mentally capable of embracing and enjoying cuck.  Rule number 2  Focus on one couple at a time. This is important so you can cover everyone’s needs. When you begin cuckolding you will find it it much more than simply fucking the other man’s wife, and the rewards will be equally rewarding. Rule number 3 Never forget the hubby. This is important because if your hubby becomes unhappy it will have a negative impact on all. Rule number 4 Educate yourself. Educating yourself in diet, nutrition, and exercise will help you be a better bull. And while most man can fuck, few learn the art of pleasuring a woman. Most men st...

  I often struggle with the answer when I'm asked if I'm bi. I have no attraction to men at all. I don't kiss men, but over time I've become comfortable with not only close contact in sexual situations, but also bi sex.  For some couples bi sex is a huge turn on and as a bull, I'm all about turning a couple on, braking out of past limitations and making fantasy happen. I recall an audible gasp from a woman first seeing her man take my cock into his mouth. She later shared she almost climaxed just watching it. Another time a woman shared her fantasy was to witness man to man sex. She said it was the most erotic experience of her life.  So while I have no general interest in men, I've learned what  we are attracted to romantically may not always sync up with what our minds tell us turns us on. When a man is hesitant when it comes to cuck, I'll tell him to focus on how his body reacts and not how his mind has been programmed. Same concept really. It doesn't...

  Cuckolding, watching your partner have sex with someone else, is a popular kink in the US, but not Europe. A sexual-fantasy researcher said the 400 people they interviewed in Belgium and the Netherlands didn't bring up cuckolding at all. That's likely because gender roles are more egalitarian and non-monogamy is more accepted in Europe, making cuckolding less taboo. Americans are often considered sexual prudes compared to their typically more uninhibited European counterparts. But there's one kink that Americans seem to enjoy much more than those overseas: cuckolding where one partner watches while their partner has sex with another person. On a recent podcast hosted by the Kinsey Institute sex researcher Justin Lehmiller, Mariëlle de Goede shared findings from her sexual-fantasy research in the Netherlands and Belgium. It involved conducting 400 interviews about people's sexual fantasies. When de Goede cross-referenced her European findings with previous rese...

I've often been told that the involvement of an additional sex partner (such as a bull) can and does improve the sex life of a couple. My belief is guys tend to try harder and even learn a few techniques from watching and being challenged a bit. A study showed b oth men and women rated sex as more satisfying when men knew they had a sexual rival. This is likely due, in large part, to the fact that men said they put more effort into satisfying their partner when they had a rival. Women also reported that sex usually lasts longer in these situations. Men and women both reported that orgasms were easier to have, more intense, and longer lasting when men knew they had sexual rivals.  This is the deep psychological part of cuckold that many don't fully understand.  So what accounts for these changes in sexual behavior?  Researchers attempted to explain them through an evolutionary lens focusing on  sperm competition theory . The basic idea behind this is that men evolved ...