Q: My wife is interested in finding a bull with a large endowment. I'm worried that may have a negative impact in our sex life together. What do you think? A: You may be asking more about your ego than anything, but putting that issue aside, most woman who think they want large really want different. The average vagina is only 2.5 inches long. Often an excessively large penis is uncomfortable for most women so I always encourage performance over size. You have probably seen some porn movie where a woman take a massive cock.  When having sex, the vaginal canal can get longer to accommodate penetration. Sexual arousal forces the cervix and uterus to lift up and out of the way, which causes the upper two-thirds of the vagina to lengthen. So while it's possible to take a large one, it's not always easy or practical.  The average penis size is 5 inches. Many men of this size are under the impression they are small. That is not true. To address your original question, if you ar...

Quite often I'm contacted by new couples looking for tips on cuckolding. While there is wealth of information throughout this blog, it never hurts to revisit some key points. First, we all have different desires and fantasies as well as limits and boundaries. It's not the responsibility of your partner to make your every fantasy come true. Do not push your partner beyond what they are comfortable doing. Open and honest conversation away from the heat of the moment is critical. Talk, listen and clearly understand what is agreed to and what is not. Talk about experiences after. What was good, what was not. What do you want to change next time? Set clear boundaries and rules before anything happens. One concern many guys have is fearing their wife may develop feeling for the bull. Any respectable bull will not allow that to happen. A true bull enters a couple's relationship to fulfill their fantasies and allow sexual exploration. To go beyond that endangers the relationship an...

When it comes to cuckold, Americans seem to be much more interested than others.  The reasons behind this may be surprising. Sharing your partner in Europe isn't really considered all that taboo, but w hatever is considered taboo in a person's particular culture is more likely to turn them on. When it comes to cuckolding, it flies in the face of the male-centered and monogamous American cultural norms. So, a man sexually sharing his wife with another man through cuckolding often comes with a negative connotation in the US. For some, that forbidden feeling can be a major turn-on, and actually increase popularity. Even the term "cuck" has  historically been used  to mock men whose wives are unfaithful. And yet the term is slowly being reimagined as a descriptor of just another form of sexual expression. Meanwhile, “cuckold” has become a top search term for many porn sites. It seems as though, whether in fantasy or reality, many men like the idea of another man with thei...

One of the toughest things to get past is talking to your spouse about the idea of cuck. If you have had the fantasy and are unsure of the reaction, it can be very scary to even bring it up. If you don't feel like you can openly talk about it then forget the idea of it ever happening. There are key things to consider; I often suggest only married couples get into cuck, It can work for others, but it fails more often then not. The reason is a married couple is invested and committed to each other and can embrace cuck easier because of that.  You have to be in solid and trusting relationship. If there are issues, cuck will not help. You have to be able to be open and honest and communicate your feelings, desires and concerns to your spouse and your bull. You have to be patient and sensitive to what each other are feeling.  If you can honestly say you both can meet that criteria, then you may be a good candidate for the lifestyle. Often men are concerned about how their wife will...

I'm very selective with who I choose to get involved with. Looks has little to do with that. It has to be a good overall match for everyone. There is a common misconception that a Bull will jump into bed with any mans wife. For me, that's not true. Over the years I have walked away from many more couples than I ever got involved with. The reasons vary. Sometimes just not a good vibe, or I did not think the couple was ready. A few times people were just too damn crazy to be connected with. I've gotten some requests that I've turned down. Some of them have been odd to me. I'm not one to judge, but if it's not my thing I have to pass. So what are some the requests I turned down? The top one is pregnancy risk. I feel for couples having a hard time trying to conceive, but I won't be a part of bringing a child into the world through cuck. Children have no place in private sex lives and it's always a no from me. Relations -  There are some fantasies around this...

Do cuckold couples have better relationships? The short answer is yes. I would suggest, if you can broaden your mind, and completely trust each other, the lifestyle is rewarding. Cuckolding tends to be a positive fantasy and behavior. It doesn't appear to be evidence of disturbance, of an unhealthy relationship, or of disregard for one's partner." Cuckolding offers some undeniable and considerable benefits. Just like any other consensually non-monogamous or kinky lifestyle, it is not for everyone. But when approached and practiced thoughtfully, it can be a real gift to a couple who choose to bring it into their relationship. In addition to being extremely sexually satisfying, cuckolding has the power to revitalize and strengthen a relationship in new and profound ways. And even if you and your partner never put cuckolding into practice, it can become an exciting part of your sexual fantasy repertoire. With an open-minded attitude and a sense of adventure, the possibilities...

Cuckold is more common than most people think, but it's not openly discussed outside of trusted circles. Today is easier than ever to connect with like minded people online and ask questions without risking being judged.  While accurate numbers are hard to come by, this the best estimate so far: There are around 6 million US couples that are active cuckolds There are most cuckold couples in the US states: “Rhode Island, New Hampshire, and West Virginia” 35% of men are either “interested” or “very interested” in trying cuckoldry 6 out of 10 men have fantasized about it whereas only 3 out of 10 women have Searches on “Cuckold” on porn websites have increased by 57% in the last 3 years There are around 60-70 million married couples in the US, and a smaller part of those have either practiced it earlier or want to. Some have tried it with other partners and tried to convince their current partner to try it, and others decide as a couple to try it out. 80% of the married couples that ar...