The interest level in cuck and conversations I'm having about it have exploded. It can be a real challenge and at times a dangerous task  to turn fantasy into reality when it comes to new couples and at times even experienced couples. The top concern for anyone has to be safety. Not only your personal safety, but your mental and physical health as well as those involved with you. I've given tips before, but I really want to focus on the topic of safety here. It's important to be open and honest, but at the same time protect your identity and privacy. Once you build an established trust with someone you can loosen what you share, but only when comfortable. I always suggest creating an email exclusive for communications and meeting at a hotel for first meetings. Be careful giving out phone numbers, address, work information, etc. I hate hearing awful stories of bad experiences especially when most of them can be avoided. If you have a bad feeling or some sort of concern DON...

My husband and I have been reading your blog. We have been into cuck for the last 3 years. What bothers me is how cuck is portrayed in porn. It not only presents an unreal picture, it makes it difficult to discuss the topic as many form their views about cuck from this miscasting.  You wrote about how common cuckold is with couples. We know it is one of the most searched topics on porn sites, but when curiosity is met with such a false presentation apart from reality a mass distorted view is created.  I hate that it has to be some taboo topic. Most of us are thinking about it, but few can ever express it outside of few places. I think if it was shown how it really is and there was a safe places for other like minded people, what is now taboo would quickly become more commonplace and benefit more couples.  The cuckold dynamic has provided the closest, most loving, and intimate relationship imaginable with my husband. We have had the pleasure of two wonderful bulls. I’...

This will most likely be my last post of the year. It's been amazing to see thousands of you find this dark little corner of taboo truth . Thank you to all who read it, ask questions and send me comments.  It's been a strange time. For awhile we were all told to stay home and I know many relationships were put on hold. Several couples lost their bulls while other began exploring cuck for the first time.  It hard to know how common cuck is as most people don't opening discuss it, but if traffic to this blog and the direct contact I have had with so many is any indication, the idea and curiosity surrounding cuck has exploded. Some time ago it was estimated that 58% of men and 33% of woman had cuckold fantasies. I tend to believe that number has grown and includes both gay and straight couples.  I've talked to so many who are both starting out and starting over.   Things changed for me during Covid as well. For one, I put on hold seeing anyone. It's one of the reas...

I'm going to start sharing random thoughts and a bit about my real experiences under the "Bull Pen" title. Kind of a journal. While I'm using a keyboard instead of a pen, I think you get the idea.  I've been offline for a couple weeks because I've been busy being a bull and not just talking about it. I had a fantastic session with my long term couple. We met at a motel and they were both waiting for me. She changed into some really sexy lingerie. Open crotch so easy access  and nothing to remove in order to fuck. It was just the three of us for a session that lasted 4 hours. Lots of tit sucking She came multiple times and he provided some oral support when he wasn't watching or taking pictures. I've been seeing this couple for 3 years now and we are all so comfortable that things happen naturally. With that comfort and trust I don't hesitate to take her in different ways and explore new things. I've made just about every sexual fantasy she had ...

Couples just getting into cuckold are bound to find a confusing mix of emotions. A battle between erotic arousal and how we are programmed to react to infidelity is common. Women often feel their partners should get jealous, and want to keep them away from other men and to themselves. T his gets translated into feeling unloved or unwanted of not properly guided. It's important  to put rules and boundaries in place that make each person feel heard, safe and supported within the framework of the relationship. Cuckold does not have to be real for all couples. It can be pursuing the cuckold fantasy in real life or just occasional role-play. There must be compromise when one is not willing to go as far as the other. The needs of both must be met while respecting the limits of both.  Communication and mutual enjoyment are the bedrocks to any relationship.  One of the most common problems novice cuckolding couples make is doing too much too soon.  Cuckoldry is about seducti...

Increasingly more experts are confirming cuckolding can be a positive experience for couples rather than a shame-filled guilt trip. Yet the term ‘cuckolding’ can give a reason of doubt to the partakers. How common is cuckolding? This is hard to account for because even today, despite the prevalent open-mindedness in society, there is a stigma attached to all relationships that are not monogamous completely. There are couples who engage in cuckolding that you would never suspect and they consider their sex life private, rightly so. Why do some husbands enjoy cuckolding? Watching your partner getting intimate with another person can be a key to enhancing your sex drive. The popularity of the topic is reflected in everything from movies, online searches and chatrooms that feature the topic.  What is it like to be cuckolded? To those men who enjoy this practice, cuckolding gives them a sexual kick like no other. The act often increases their desire for their wife, inspires better sex a...

What a time. Recently traveled to the Atlanta area to meet a couple that had some struggles finding a good bull. I'm often asked to meet long distance couples and only rarely ever do. It was a great time. We met for drinks and to talk. I had spent a long time chatting with them online prior so it was not long before all of us were comfortable. They had attempted this with local guys before, but it never worked out.  After going back to my hotel room it wasn't long until he had undressed her and presented his wife to me. As I began to embrace her, I could see his cock almost bursting through his pants, so I new this is what he wanted. I won't get into all the details, but the fantasy they both had for so long happened. I fucked her a few feet away from him as he jerked off and came pretty quickly.  I don't usually cum in a man's wife the first time. It's something we work up to if at all. Not long into it, he was asking me to. I felt he had really thought about s...