Do cuckold couples have better relationships? The short answer is yes. I would suggest, if you can broaden your mind, and completely trust each other, the lifestyle is rewarding. Cuckolding tends to be a positive fantasy and behavior. It doesn't appear to be evidence of disturbance, of an unhealthy relationship, or of disregard for one's partner." Cuckolding offers some undeniable and considerable benefits. Just like any other consensually non-monogamous or kinky lifestyle, it is not for everyone. But when approached and practiced thoughtfully, it can be a real gift to a couple who choose to bring it into their relationship. In addition to being extremely sexually satisfying, cuckolding has the power to revitalize and strengthen a relationship in new and profound ways. And even if you and your partner never put cuckolding into practice, it can become an exciting part of your sexual fantasy repertoire. With an open-minded attitude and a sense of adventure, the possibilities...

Cuckold is more common than most people think, but it's not openly discussed outside of trusted circles. Today is easier than ever to connect with like minded people online and ask questions without risking being judged.  While accurate numbers are hard to come by, this the best estimate so far: There are around 6 million US couples that are active cuckolds There are most cuckold couples in the US states: “Rhode Island, New Hampshire, and West Virginia” 35% of men are either “interested” or “very interested” in trying cuckoldry 6 out of 10 men have fantasized about it whereas only 3 out of 10 women have Searches on “Cuckold” on porn websites have increased by 57% in the last 3 years There are around 60-70 million married couples in the US, and a smaller part of those have either practiced it earlier or want to. Some have tried it with other partners and tried to convince their current partner to try it, and others decide as a couple to try it out. 80% of the married couples that ar...

I get a lot of questions about being a bull and all that means. It's not something you learn overnight, but maybe some insight will help. A cuckold bull is a term used to describe a dominant male participant in a cuckolding fetish in which a man takes pleasure in watching his partner engage in sexual activity with another man, often referred to as the "bull". The cuckold bull may be involved in sexual acts or simply watch as a spectator. It often involves power dynamics and intense phycological stimulation beyond mere physical. All participants should engage in safe, consensual and negotiated play. True  Cuckold bulls are unique and much more then someone willing to sleep with an attached woman. Typical features of a cuckold bull: Confidence : A cuckold bull exudes confidence in himself and his masculinity. He's comfortable with sexuality and is not afraid to explore desires of a couple. Open-mindedness : Typically willing to try new things. They enjoy pushing the bou...

It's easy to get confused as terms with different meanings to different people are tossed around. I don't consider a typical threesome to be cuckold, but let's get into some terms you might see or hear around cuck. MFM - This means the couple is looking for a male to join them in a threesome usually with no male-on-male play. It means that the couple is expecting the two guys to play straight. The female is the focus of attention, so MFM means no direct contact between the men. It's simply sharing the woman. MMF - This   couple is looking for a male to join them and some level of bisexual play is acceptable. It typically means casual or at least oral male-on-male contact is expected. In some cases, you will be able to touch and play with the other male in the threesome as you would the woman. FFM - T his is pretty self explanatory and by far the most popular threesome in the lifestyle. It signifies that the couple is looking for another woman to join them.  Bi play is o...

I'm often asked by new couples my thoughts on a husband being present and watching the sexual encounter between his wife and a bull. Ultimately it's up to the couple and what they think they can handle, but let me share some thoughts to help make the decision. I personally prefer the husband to be there so long as there is enjoyment in the experience. I also feel it's good for the couple to be connected during sex even if it's only eye contact. However, there is much to consider. First not all women want to be watched. There are a number of reasons for this but unless everyone is comfortable, the experience will be harmed.  Not all guys (especially newbies) can handle the reality of it all. They are in full control of the fantasy in their mind. That's not so when they see a bull take control. Watching is erotic, intense, and can be a fantasy come true. It also can be humbling, a blow to the ego, and may stir up negative feelings of hurt, confusion and inadequacy.  N...

  I received a question from a young couple, not married, but interested in cuck. I answered them directly and while I tend to stick to married couples, I thought I'd share some of what I told them here. Most of my experience is with couples in their 40's or 50's or older. Early on I had some experiences with a younger couple that just did not go well. They weren't in a mature enough relationship. To be fair, I didn't have the experience I have now, but I find older couples often more compatible with the lifestyle.  While I would caution a couple of any age, it's not impossible for a young couple to find success in the lifestyle. Young couples have access to cuckold fantasies and information at their fingertips online. Something older couples never had. So the curiosity is beginning younger. The culture is more sexual, too. You can find sexual partners through apps that make it really easy to meet for sex without any long-term entanglements. It used to be much m...

Q: Can you explain the difference between a Cuckoldress and Hotwife? Thanks for the question. There is a lot of terms used in the lifestyle community and often different words have different meanings to people. I personally don't dwell on definitions too much unless it creates a communication issue. Some say the difference is that a Cuckoldress humiliates the husband whereas a Hotwifing does not, some say the opposite.   Yet others say a Hotwife chooses her partners but a Cuckoldress has her partners chosen by her husband. So the definition really depends on what the person using the term thinks it means.   I don't often use the term Cuckoldress. I prefer Hotwife no matter the actual role. The lifestyle is all about finding out what works best for you. No rule book, no restrictions. So what terms you use are really up to you as is the type of cuckolding that you prefer.