One of the toughest things to get past is talking to your spouse about the idea of cuck. If you have had the fantasy and are unsure of the reaction, it can be very scary to even bring it up. If you don't feel like you can openly talk about it then forget the idea of it ever happening. There are key things to consider; I often suggest only married couples get into cuck, It can work for others, but it fails more often then not. The reason is a married couple is invested and committed to each other and can embrace cuck easier because of that.  You have to be in solid and trusting relationship. If there are issues, cuck will not help. You have to be able to be open and honest and communicate your feelings, desires and concerns to your spouse and your bull. You have to be patient and sensitive to what each other are feeling.  If you can honestly say you both can meet that criteria, then you may be a good candidate for the lifestyle. Often men are concerned about how their wife will...

I'm very selective with who I choose to get involved with. Looks has little to do with that. It has to be a good overall match for everyone. There is a common misconception that a Bull will jump into bed with any mans wife. For me, that's not true. Over the years I have walked away from many more couples than I ever got involved with. The reasons vary. Sometimes just not a good vibe, or I did not think the couple was ready. A few times people were just too damn crazy to be connected with. I've gotten some requests that I've turned down. Some of them have been odd to me. I'm not one to judge, but if it's not my thing I have to pass. So what are some the requests I turned down? The top one is pregnancy risk. I feel for couples having a hard time trying to conceive, but I won't be a part of bringing a child into the world through cuck. Children have no place in private sex lives and it's always a no from me. Relations -  There are some fantasies around this...

Do cuckold couples have better relationships? The short answer is yes. I would suggest, if you can broaden your mind, and completely trust each other, the lifestyle is rewarding. Cuckolding tends to be a positive fantasy and behavior. It doesn't appear to be evidence of disturbance, of an unhealthy relationship, or of disregard for one's partner." Cuckolding offers some undeniable and considerable benefits. Just like any other consensually non-monogamous or kinky lifestyle, it is not for everyone. But when approached and practiced thoughtfully, it can be a real gift to a couple who choose to bring it into their relationship. In addition to being extremely sexually satisfying, cuckolding has the power to revitalize and strengthen a relationship in new and profound ways. And even if you and your partner never put cuckolding into practice, it can become an exciting part of your sexual fantasy repertoire. With an open-minded attitude and a sense of adventure, the possibilities...

Cuckold is more common than most people think, but it's not openly discussed outside of trusted circles. Today is easier than ever to connect with like minded people online and ask questions without risking being judged.  While accurate numbers are hard to come by, this the best estimate so far: There are around 6 million US couples that are active cuckolds There are most cuckold couples in the US states: “Rhode Island, New Hampshire, and West Virginia” 35% of men are either “interested” or “very interested” in trying cuckoldry 6 out of 10 men have fantasized about it whereas only 3 out of 10 women have Searches on “Cuckold” on porn websites have increased by 57% in the last 3 years There are around 60-70 million married couples in the US, and a smaller part of those have either practiced it earlier or want to. Some have tried it with other partners and tried to convince their current partner to try it, and others decide as a couple to try it out. 80% of the married couples that ar...

I get a lot of questions about being a bull and all that means. It's not something you learn overnight, but maybe some insight will help. A cuckold bull is a term used to describe a dominant male participant in a cuckolding fetish in which a man takes pleasure in watching his partner engage in sexual activity with another man, often referred to as the "bull". The cuckold bull may be involved in sexual acts or simply watch as a spectator. It often involves power dynamics and intense phycological stimulation beyond mere physical. All participants should engage in safe, consensual and negotiated play. True  Cuckold bulls are unique and much more then someone willing to sleep with an attached woman. Typical features of a cuckold bull: Confidence : A cuckold bull exudes confidence in himself and his masculinity. He's comfortable with sexuality and is not afraid to explore desires of a couple. Open-mindedness : Typically willing to try new things. They enjoy pushing the bou...

It's easy to get confused as terms with different meanings to different people are tossed around. I don't consider a typical threesome to be cuckold, but let's get into some terms you might see or hear around cuck. MFM - This means the couple is looking for a male to join them in a threesome usually with no male-on-male play. It means that the couple is expecting the two guys to play straight. The female is the focus of attention, so MFM means no direct contact between the men. It's simply sharing the woman. MMF - This   couple is looking for a male to join them and some level of bisexual play is acceptable. It typically means casual or at least oral male-on-male contact is expected. In some cases, you will be able to touch and play with the other male in the threesome as you would the woman. FFM - T his is pretty self explanatory and by far the most popular threesome in the lifestyle. It signifies that the couple is looking for another woman to join them.  Bi play is o...

I'm often asked by new couples my thoughts on a husband being present and watching the sexual encounter between his wife and a bull. Ultimately it's up to the couple and what they think they can handle, but let me share some thoughts to help make the decision. I personally prefer the husband to be there so long as there is enjoyment in the experience. I also feel it's good for the couple to be connected during sex even if it's only eye contact. However, there is much to consider. First not all women want to be watched. There are a number of reasons for this but unless everyone is comfortable, the experience will be harmed.  Not all guys (especially newbies) can handle the reality of it all. They are in full control of the fantasy in their mind. That's not so when they see a bull take control. Watching is erotic, intense, and can be a fantasy come true. It also can be humbling, a blow to the ego, and may stir up negative feelings of hurt, confusion and inadequacy.  N...