I love when spring comes, the weather warms up and people are in the mood to fuck . For a man whose idea of heaven is the gentlest of touches on his aching erection as he leaks precum watching his wife climax with another man, it means cuck is back in season. When I’ve discussed cuckolding with people not in the lifestyle, some think it represents weakness. That those who get turned on by the idea of their partner fucking someone else are somehow constantly miserable. Feeling undeserving of love and so only able to enjoy it if they know it comes with the promise of betrayal. That's totally wrong. Guys cite a range of reasons why it’s hot: they get off on their partner’s pleasure. They get off on the pure visual of it: watching two people fuck and knowing one of them is your partner. It's a personalized explicit live show performed just for them. And some of them – yes – they like the conflict. In a world that teaches us that sex is precious – a gift you give to those you love a...

I get the black/white question often and whatever you chose is up to you. I don't think choosing a bull should be based on skin color. At the same time, much of the interracial allure tends to come from misinformation and the myth the black men are better endowed than white men. Some are, some aren't.  Recently a couple shared with me their general experience with black men. It seemed a few could not get fully erect. So while they may have been larger, the ability to use that extra length was impacted. Their question was why? 40% of men over 40 have ED issues. That number jumps to 70% after age 70.  African-American men are  more likely  than men of other races to experience ED.  ED’s underlying  causes include  cardiovascular disease—high blood pressure, high cholesterol. All generally greater issues for black men. Many cuckold couples  often have unrealistic expectations, pressuring the Bull to perform on demand or wanting him to get an erection...

Q: My wife is interested in finding a bull with a large endowment. I'm worried that may have a negative impact in our sex life together. What do you think? A: You may be asking more about your ego than anything, but putting that issue aside, most woman who think they want large really want different. The average vagina is only 2.5 inches long. Often an excessively large penis is uncomfortable for most women so I always encourage performance over size. You have probably seen some porn movie where a woman take a massive cock.  When having sex, the vaginal canal can get longer to accommodate penetration. Sexual arousal forces the cervix and uterus to lift up and out of the way, which causes the upper two-thirds of the vagina to lengthen. So while it's possible to take a large one, it's not always easy or practical.  The average penis size is 5 inches. Many men of this size are under the impression they are small. That is not true. To address your original question, if you ar...

Quite often I'm contacted by new couples looking for tips on cuckolding. While there is wealth of information throughout this blog, it never hurts to revisit some key points. First, we all have different desires and fantasies as well as limits and boundaries. It's not the responsibility of your partner to make your every fantasy come true. Do not push your partner beyond what they are comfortable doing. Open and honest conversation away from the heat of the moment is critical. Talk, listen and clearly understand what is agreed to and what is not. Talk about experiences after. What was good, what was not. What do you want to change next time? Set clear boundaries and rules before anything happens. One concern many guys have is fearing their wife may develop feeling for the bull. Any respectable bull will not allow that to happen. A true bull enters a couple's relationship to fulfill their fantasies and allow sexual exploration. To go beyond that endangers the relationship an...

When it comes to cuckold, Americans seem to be much more interested than others.  The reasons behind this may be surprising. Sharing your partner in Europe isn't really considered all that taboo, but w hatever is considered taboo in a person's particular culture is more likely to turn them on. When it comes to cuckolding, it flies in the face of the male-centered and monogamous American cultural norms. So, a man sexually sharing his wife with another man through cuckolding often comes with a negative connotation in the US. For some, that forbidden feeling can be a major turn-on, and actually increase popularity. Even the term "cuck" has  historically been used  to mock men whose wives are unfaithful. And yet the term is slowly being reimagined as a descriptor of just another form of sexual expression. Meanwhile, “cuckold” has become a top search term for many porn sites. It seems as though, whether in fantasy or reality, many men like the idea of another man with thei...

One of the toughest things to get past is talking to your spouse about the idea of cuck. If you have had the fantasy and are unsure of the reaction, it can be very scary to even bring it up. If you don't feel like you can openly talk about it then forget the idea of it ever happening. There are key things to consider; I often suggest only married couples get into cuck, It can work for others, but it fails more often then not. The reason is a married couple is invested and committed to each other and can embrace cuck easier because of that.  You have to be in solid and trusting relationship. If there are issues, cuck will not help. You have to be able to be open and honest and communicate your feelings, desires and concerns to your spouse and your bull. You have to be patient and sensitive to what each other are feeling.  If you can honestly say you both can meet that criteria, then you may be a good candidate for the lifestyle. Often men are concerned about how their wife will...

I'm very selective with who I choose to get involved with. Looks has little to do with that. It has to be a good overall match for everyone. There is a common misconception that a Bull will jump into bed with any mans wife. For me, that's not true. Over the years I have walked away from many more couples than I ever got involved with. The reasons vary. Sometimes just not a good vibe, or I did not think the couple was ready. A few times people were just too damn crazy to be connected with. I've gotten some requests that I've turned down. Some of them have been odd to me. I'm not one to judge, but if it's not my thing I have to pass. So what are some the requests I turned down? The top one is pregnancy risk. I feel for couples having a hard time trying to conceive, but I won't be a part of bringing a child into the world through cuck. Children have no place in private sex lives and it's always a no from me. Relations -  There are some fantasies around this...