Some might find the idea of watching their partner in bed with someone else as nightmarish, so unthinkable that the mere thought triggers intense jealousy. For others, it could be a total turn-on.  Either way, you should know that cuckolding is actually a surprisingly common fetish, and there are many misconceptions about what it entails. Basically, cuckolding involves someone getting aroused by observing their partner having sex with someone else. Not to be confused with a threesome, in a cuckold situation, the cuck doesn’t always get directly in on the fun. Rather they draw enjoyment from the taboo act of surrendering their partner to another. Cuckolding isn’t technically considered cheating as it doesn’t occur behind the partner’s back. in fact, not only has the cuck given permission to their partner to have sex with another person, they’re also typically encouraging it. A recent survey showed that more than half of men and about a third of women had considered cuckolding. Keep ...

The odd word "cuckold" has evolved over the ages. It used to mean a guy who was unaware his spouse was cheating on him That has changed.  Cuckolding can be enjoyed by couples of any sexual orientation, genders, and roles, and there's a wide spectrum of ways that the couple views the affairs with the third party.  I hear from couples who want to safely explore cuckold without being judged or in some uncomfortable situation. While merely explore the fantasy of cuckold can be a huge turn on for many, the  erotic scenario doesn't need to remain a fantasy.  Most of the couples I deal with involve  a guy who knows, enjoys, encourages and at times participates in his spouse taking another sexual partner.  Believe it or not, cuckolding fantasies are actually much more common than you'd think. That's not to say you won't get horrified reactions from people. Yet  before anyone brands this lifestyle a negative, I encourage you to take a step back and conside...

 Q: This isn't exactly cuckold related, but I am hoping you can help. We are about to go into our first group sex encounter and wanted to know if you had any advice for us? A: Without knowing your level of experience with other forms of sex my advice will be pretty general, but here it is: Decide ahead of time what your expectations and boundaries are. Not only what you are willing to do, but what your spouse is ready to witness. Be open to the desires of others, but also firm on your own limits.  It's incredibly important to be safe. Protecting yourself and your partner are vital. Don't get carried away and let one experience effect the rest of your life.  Communication is key. Make sure you give and get consent. Give yourself time to adjust. No need to do it all right away. I don't recommend excessive drinking or any drug use. It will cloud your abilities and judgement. Be open, but don't be afraid to say no. Don't be offended to hear no.  Don't hide the f...

While most of the views here are presented from my (The bull) perspective, I asked a cuckold husband to share his thoughts in the hopes some might find it helpful. His words are below: I never dreamed I would be in such a position with my wife and while I would love to discuss it at times, there are few people you can open up to about such things. Many people have a very wrong idea of what cuck even is. I live happily as a cuckold. We have been married for 17 years and intend to stay married. I have not had good sex with my wife for virtually our entire marriage. I am not good in bed, and suffer from premature ejaculation. Sex always terrified me; and sexual expectations are unbearable. Past sexual moments always ended in disappointment for both of us. We share physical touch, but sex for us now is very different.   To some all that might sound awful. To me it works perfectly. We love each other and are both satisfied. When we first met our bull it was strictly conversation. L...

 Q: I've been reading your blog and as a married woman both fascinated and terrified by what I have read, I'm curious about the impact of romantic feelings developing for a bull and the impact of having an additional sex partner. Will you address this? A: Thanks for the question. S ome people are better than others at compartmentalizing their romantic longings from their sexual desires. For others, emotions and touch naturally entwine, making causal sex harder. Research shows that women tend to have a harder time than men with preventing emotional attachment, and when this happens they are more prone to feeling used, depressed, regretful, or embarrassed after the fact . It's important to determine what type of person you are before entering into an additional sexual relationship.   It can be easy to tell yourself that it's just sex, just for fun, but for some people, it may turn out to be very hard to keep your feelings in check. So, it's vital to assess expectation...

No matter what role you play (watching, joining, awaiting her return from a date) in order to be a good cuck and maintain a solid sexual connection with your partner it is essential you know how to properly eat pussy. Clean or filled, smooth or hairy, there is no more intimate connection than lips to vagina. Even guys with size or erectile issues can do this. If you have a mouth, you can make a woman cum. The issue is many guys have no clue what they are doing when their face is between her legs. I'm going to try to fix that. First understand the parts of the woman. Google it if you have to. Study it. Be able to find all her parts blind, because you will be.  Technique is just as important as attitude. You should savor a woman. The smell of her body, the taste of her on your tongue, the sounds she makes as her body reacts to each movement. Guys should get lost in the moment and really connect with her and share in the pleasure you are giving her. To have command of a woman's bo...

Q: We have been discussing the idea of cuck for sometime now and have reached the point where it either needs to happen or we need to forget it for good. The fear is it could harm our relationship. Can you explain why it might be good for us? A: I will give you some reasons but it's up to you to decide of the risk is worth the reward. I t’s easy to  get stuck in a rut when you’re in a long-term relationship . Adding a bull can create a whole new experience and allow you to try new things.   Often couples learn new ways to please each other. Because cuckolding pushes the boundaries of a traditional sexual relationship, it encourages both partners to be a lot less closed off to trying new things in bed. Being open-minded can help you break out of judgement cycles. Having a partner who lets you unabashedly be yourself can be nourishing. Someone who’s fulfilled sexually will often have confidence that shows up in all types of relationships. Some guys like the fact that t...