I received a question from a young couple, not married, but interested in cuck. I answered them directly and while I tend to stick to married couples, I thought I'd share some of what I told them here. Most of my experience is with couples in their 40's or 50's or older. Early on I had some experiences with a younger couple that just did not go well. They weren't in a mature enough relationship. To be fair, I didn't have the experience I have now, but I find older couples often more compatible with the lifestyle.  While I would caution a couple of any age, it's not impossible for a young couple to find success in the lifestyle. Young couples have access to cuckold fantasies and information at their fingertips online. Something older couples never had. So the curiosity is beginning younger. The culture is more sexual, too. You can find sexual partners through apps that make it really easy to meet for sex without any long-term entanglements. It used to be much m...

Q: Can you explain the difference between a Cuckoldress and Hotwife? Thanks for the question. There is a lot of terms used in the lifestyle community and often different words have different meanings to people. I personally don't dwell on definitions too much unless it creates a communication issue. Some say the difference is that a Cuckoldress humiliates the husband whereas a Hotwifing does not, some say the opposite.   Yet others say a Hotwife chooses her partners but a Cuckoldress has her partners chosen by her husband. So the definition really depends on what the person using the term thinks it means.   I don't often use the term Cuckoldress. I prefer Hotwife no matter the actual role. The lifestyle is all about finding out what works best for you. No rule book, no restrictions. So what terms you use are really up to you as is the type of cuckolding that you prefer.  

  Hello, I think my first step on the road to cuckoldry was my interest in my wife's previous lovers. Hearing her tell me, I was feeling both aroused and a sense of jealousy. My wife told me about how she cheated on her first husband. She married him when she was 19 and five months pregnant. He was a pot-smoking loser and she ended up being the main breadwinner. At 21, she had just had her second kid, she was feeling down about herself and mad at her husband for failing to support her. Who could blame her for needing to feel attractive again, for needing to feel a strong man's hands on her body, his cock in her body, making her young pussy feel like a sex organ again, not just a birth canal.  We have been married about 15 years. I am 48 and she is 39. Not long ago I started having heart problems which were genetic. The pills the Dr. gave me made it impossible to get a hard-on. That's about when I found your blog when I was looking for ways to deal with our situation.  My ...

There are a lot of different ideas of what cuck is/isn't and it can be different for people. For me there is one rule I live by: Ensure any choice/action/experience and its corresponding outcome(s) strengthen existing marital bonds or create new ones. A couple taking the step of including another in a sexual role within their marriage does need to ensure their health, safety and marital well-being, but if the rule is applied and adhered to, all of these elements can be accounted for without needlessly limiting themselves. Couples will seek to  navigate what’s healthy for them. Going beyond boundaries and exploring without harming the relationship. By asking the question: does the choice, activity, experience and/or outcome strengthen or weaken their marital bonds? Many pitfalls can be avoided. Cuck should never have regrets or do harm to the marriage bond. Often a new direction or decision has different consequences, outcomes and benefits for one spouse compared to the other. The r...

I usually am dedicated to a single couple and don't often get involved with more than one couple at time. For a number of reasons, that has recently changed.  Not long ago I met a couple who were new to cuck. After much discussion we met, however they both decided they weren't ready for all that comes with inviting a bull into your bed and life. Shortly after that, I began talking with another couple.  They were both experienced with cuck and seeking a bull to take them to the next level. The issue was they were about 6 hours away from me. What they wanted was intense. A raw hardcore session with a bull.  I decided to go beyond what my norm is and said yes to meeting them and making it all happen.  What followed was one of the most incredible experiences I've had in a long time as a bull.  The wife was very attractive with a great body. What you must realize that as a bull attractiveness is not a big factor. After all, she is someone else's wife. Many times you ...

I talk with a number of couples. Most I never meet. I simply answer questions, give advice and hope they find what works for them. Recently I was contacted by a couple looking for their first experience. We chatted for some time. First with the husband. I ask a series of questions to try and find our where the couple is mentally in the process and if they are even ready to go from fantasy to reality.  In time I spoke with the wife and then together as a couple. They were local to me, seemed to be in the right mindset and we had hot if off so to speak. I was actually attempting to slow them down, but after some time they both insisted they were ready to meet me. Initially we were going to meet simply to talk face to face. Share a deep conversation about taking the next step and determine if and when they wanted that to happen.  This couple decided they were ready and did not want to wait any longer. Our first meeting would be in my hotel room and they understood it would m...

  I get lots of email questions about cuck when people come across my blog and find someone they can safely ask questions. So here are a few answers and feel free to send me your questions. Do people get jealous?   Short answer is yes. But that's not always bad. Anger and hurt are bad, but measured jealousy can be arousing and make you want your spouse even more. Are cuck fantasies involving a black man taking my white wife racist? I do tend to find the interracial    portrayal  of cuck (especially in porn) racist. At the same time, there are plenty of black men who are happy to take on the role of a black bull. What needs to be understood is fantasy and reality are different. As long as everyone is a consenting adult, there should be no need to worry. I know that my husband is highly monogamous, so I have never mentioned it directly, but I would love the chance to screw other guys. How do I explain that I only want one love in my life (him), but I would al...