Q: I have loved reading your blog. I have had the fantasy of cuck for a long time and had the conversation with my wife. While she indulges me when we talk about it, she has no interest in it really happening. Is there a way to convince her or seduce her?  No. That's the short answer. If someone has no interest in pursuing or experiencing something sexual, then respect that. No one should ever feel pressured or forced into doing something they are not comfortable doing. It is not the job of your spouse to meet every sexual desire you have. That's hard for some to hear. Enjoy where the two of you are. If it's just pillow talk, then enjoy those moments. Let me also address the issue of "seduction". I've been asked a few times to seduce an unsuspecting woman. Maybe buy her drinks, use my charm and finally get her to surrender. Dream on. That never happens. I would not take advantage of anyone intoxicated and the power to magically seduce is not anything real. S...

If you have both decided you are ready for the real deal and it's time to take the leap, one of the biggest challenges is find a good bull. There is no shortage of guys willing to have sex with a married woman, but an experienced bull who understands the psychological side of cuck and how to guide a couple is not easy to find. Beware many will say they know what they are doing, but very few actually do. I always suggest a couple make a list of what they seeking in a bull. What are needs and what are wants. Be realistic. If you want a model perfect body with a 10 inch cock you may be setting the bar too high. It's just as important to know what you won't settle on. For instance, I don't suggest a couple ever consider a married bull or someone who has a risky lifestyle.  Keep in mind if you rush into things and settler for someone who is "good enough" an poor experience can have a negative impact and my prevent one or both of you from want to continue.  The good...

  Q: I'm pretty new to all this. I have read the advice you give to couples but wondered if you have any advice for bulls? Thanks for the question. I have plenty of advice, but I stress each couples needs and desires are different so there are no single answers, but I can give some general insight. First is understand even though a bull controls the encounter, his sexual desires are not the priority. Most couples look to a bull to re-spark their sexual desires. That should be your mission. They will have fantasies and things they want to explore that you are bound to enjoy, but you need to be able to make them comfortable enough to express those things to you.  Build trust and never betray that trust.  Do not develop feelings. That does not mean don't care or be cold, but it is the duty of any honorable bull to protect and respect the marriage bond. A couple invites a bull into their sex life. He is not there to replace or take on the role of the husband. You are part of ...

One of the biggest challenges when it comes to cuck is finding people who are honest, real and do more than just talk a good game. Many couples turn to chatrooms and websites to safely and discreetly meet people and begin their exploration. While there are some real people to be found, many are just playing out their own sexual fantasies online.  You really have no idea who you are talking to and if what they are telling you is even close to the truth. I have no issue with people who play out fantasy online. I do have an issue with those who misrepresent themselves and seek to mislead others. The best approach is to assume what you find online is false until proven true. I don't expect anyone to just believe every word I say. I answer questions, address concerns, build trust over time and never rush into anything.  If you go online, I suggest you do it as a couple. At the very least discuss what you discover together. It goes without saying, don't give anyone your address, pho...

I hate the term breeding. It sounds so industrial. I was asked (and have been asked in the past) about the subject. This is my view on the topic. Take it or leave it. There are times when a couple may desire to have the bull impregnate the wife for a number of reasons. My response to that request is and will always be NO. I've heard it all before. It's a trusted three way relationship. They want a family anyway. The woman can't conceive with the husband. Whatever you come up with my answer is going to be no.  If you want to seek a sperm donor fine but, I don't suggest it be your bull. There are several reasons why I am strongly against this. First, I don't believe in involving children in your sexual fantasies on any level. That particular fantasy is a red flag for me. It often indicates to me a couple does not have clear sense of the dividing line between reality and fantasy. Bringing a child into the world through a sexual triad can create all kinds of legal, mora...

There are some bulls (and couples) who enjoy humiliation. It may be the size of the husbands cock or his inability to satisfy his wife that is made fun of. I personally do not engage in that. Most couples are not seeking that type of situation and I find the risk of genuinely hurting a relationship too great for me. Plus it's really not in my nature to gain pleasure at someone's expense. Now that's not to say that submission and humbling acts are harmful. There is an unavoidable hierarchy that must take place in cuck. The bull has to be in a controlling position to guide the couple. The wife must submit to allow the bull to take her in front of her husband and the husband must submit and willingly give his wife over to the bull. None of this is done to hurt or humiliate. It's done to heighten pleasures and to recast the typical roles of the couple  often dictated by society .  Even if in everyday life the husband is an Alpha male and dominant, all that should...

I was talking to a guy who has been married for over 20 years. He has had the idea of cuck in his head but said to me "I'm not supposed to want this". No one really decides something like that. It's all based on how we perceive others reactions. What I hear often is over time couples crave that feeling they used to have. I'm not talking emotional feeling toward a spouse, but that sexual excitement when you first met. How incredible sex was in the beginning and how you could not wait for the next time. Life has a way of dulling that. Jobs, kids, distractions. How does a couple shake that and get back to that original excitement toward each other. Sure you can go through therapy or something, but most only seek a Doctor when something is wrong. Nothing is really wrong. It's just not as right as it could be. The role of a genuine bull is get the couple back on track. To be the catalyst that rekindles those connections that have been dulled over time. That's d...